Anonymous wrote:Side note, use plenty of protection. The older people get, the odds of them having an STD increases, due to body count.
OP here
I am not sleeping with anyone yet.
I’m just starting to date again. It is a bit overwhelming with how many people are on the apps. All the first dates I’ve had are with people who I had enough connection with that I would have taken it further if I were in my 20s. In my 40s I know myself better and my standards are way higher.
Right now there is a front runner, two maybes, and another new person who I am open to connecting more with. It just feels a bit weird but I guess with everyone dating casually and being open to multiple connections at once it is going to take time to sort out.