Spouse is a fed. We have teens, which means that life does go on somewhat as normal in terms of activities. Kids still have school-related sports, scouts, etc. We are also dealing with aging parent issues, including one with the start of dementia.
Spouse's agency is/was offering VERA/VSIP. Spouse put in for this but was denied a couple days ago because their position was exempted though some co-workers were able to take it.
It's been a rollercoaster of emotions over the past two months, but there has also been a lot of "must tend to" non-work things.
It's been a