Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 16:48     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

The is OP and turns out that I have even more reason to be annoyed. My husband helped me put groceries away and left a bag he thought was just pantry items on the counter… turns out he missed a bag of frozen fruit in there because he didn’t expect there to be frozen stuff in that bag. Yea, on us for not immediately putting that stuff away, but if I had packed it wouldn’t have happened. I’ll speak up next time that I would like to pack…
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 16:43     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

I always tell them that I want to pack my own groceries. And even if there’s a line behind me, I do that back in the day I used to work at a grocery store, so I’m pretty quick at packing. Sometimes they get annoyed, but I don’t care. I’m the one who wants to put the groceries away and I want to keep the cold things together, so I know what needs immediate attention when I get home.

Next time, just tell the cashier you’re going to pack. People behind you in line will survive!
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 15:09     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I loathe self-checkout because it puts people out of work and me at the mercy of an unforgiving and frequently unreliable robot. It really pisses me off to be expected to look up, e.g., produce codes that even a minimally competent checker would have memorized.

I put my stuff on the checkout belt in the order I want it bagged.

It drives me crazy when the checker takes things out of order to bag them some other way. Particularly since they’re now charging for bags, and the bags typically are astonishingly fragile.

Two other off topic things that degrade my shopping experience are aisles jammed with stand-alone displays, merchandise waiting to be shelved, people shelving during the day, etc.; and expired food still offered for sale so that I constantly have to check things before buying.


Yikes. You sound pleasant


Pleasant enough to honestly care about hard-working people being put out of a job so that a machine can do it worse.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 15:04     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

Anonymous wrote:I loathe self-checkout because it puts people out of work and me at the mercy of an unforgiving and frequently unreliable robot. It really pisses me off to be expected to look up, e.g., produce codes that even a minimally competent checker would have memorized.

I put my stuff on the checkout belt in the order I want it bagged.

It drives me crazy when the checker takes things out of order to bag them some other way. Particularly since they’re now charging for bags, and the bags typically are astonishingly fragile.

Two other off topic things that degrade my shopping experience are aisles jammed with stand-alone displays, merchandise waiting to be shelved, people shelving during the day, etc.; and expired food still offered for sale so that I constantly have to check things before buying.


Yikes. You sound pleasant
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:58     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

I loathe self-checkout because it puts people out of work and me at the mercy of an unforgiving and frequently unreliable robot. It really pisses me off to be expected to look up, e.g., produce codes that even a minimally competent checker would have memorized.

I put my stuff on the checkout belt in the order I want it bagged.

It drives me crazy when the checker takes things out of order to bag them some other way. Particularly since they’re now charging for bags, and the bags typically are astonishingly fragile.

Two other off topic things that degrade my shopping experience are aisles jammed with stand-alone displays, merchandise waiting to be shelved, people shelving during the day, etc.; and expired food still offered for sale so that I constantly have to check things before buying.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:57     Subject: Re:Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

I juist say "Thanks, but I'll pack." If they seem any sort of way about it I explain I was a grocery store cashier a long time ago and became particular about it then and they will too.

Shame the cashiers you are going to were not trained in how to pack. I was.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:56     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

I appreciate it. Its rare they do it.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:55     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

I agree. Sometimes they don’t pack with common sense at all. They dump stuff in bags and sometimes the containers pop open. They also damage the yogurts cups because they toss them into the bag instead of stacking them. This often cuts the foil open on the cups.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:51     Subject: Re:Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

I always use self checkout even with a full cart.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:47     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

I always say "do you mind if I pack the bags?" And only once did a cashier say they wanted to do it to keep the line moving. Generally they prefer not having to touch the bags.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:29     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I almost always purposefully choose a line with someone in front of me so I have time to unpack my cart and organize before my stuff is ready to be scanned specifically so I can pack my own stuff (using self checkout at Wegmans at least is for those with small amount of items). Anyway today I got ushered into a newly open line and of course that meant that the person was scanning as soon as I got stuff on the belt and packing for me. Didn’t matter how I grouped things on the belt, she decided they needed to be all mixed up. I like packing like with like, with cold stuff in the cold bags — 1 cold bag for raw meat and the other for all other cold. I like all my produce in one bag. I organized as such on the belt but now I’m left with a mishmash of stuff. Call me particular but this super frustrates me.

Am I alone in this? Sure I could’ve asked her to stop but I didn’t want to hold up the growing line behind me.


You are not alone. I specifically unload my items so that
(1) the cold items get packed into the insulated bags
(2) they are organized for quick and easy unloading and putting away when I get home and
(3) they don't pack bags too heavily (ie, putting all the cans and jars in the same bag) because I have neck and shoulder and wrist issues.

I even layout the insulated bags followed by the cold items, then the non-insulated bags followed by the rest of the items. And I specifically separate the canned/jarred items into smaller groups with lighter items/boxed items/breads in between so they can go on top of some cans and jars in each bag instead of all the cans and jars going into the same bag. Despite this, cashiers bag items according to how they see fit - usually by putting all of the canned and glass jarred items - and maybe even cartons of milk - in the same bag; filling each bag as much as possible regardless of with what while also being perfectly happy to put one bag of chips in its own bag; and just sticking random items wherever they might fit.

I guess the other commenters on this thread will find me even more impossible a person than OP because I also find it very annoying that cashiers can't figure out the simplest of bagging logic of how to fill a bag of just boxed items like pasta and cereal. Or not to put grapes or strawberries on the bottom underneath heavier items.

I self-check out at Aldi; but Safeway and Giant, not unless I have to. There isn't enough space and there is always an issue, and as I already noted, I have neck and shoulder and wrist issues. Aldi affords more space for multiple bags and maneuvering everything - I don't know, it just does for me so please don't start criticizing me. Sometimes if the cashier hasn't started bagging stuff and I'm done with the unloading and payment machine, I will start bagging or grab bags before they're too heavy. I also ask for certain things as they scan, like "please don't make the bags too heavy" or "could you please put the ____ in the _____ bag" or even "I'll take that" or "that can go in here."

Groceries USED to train their employees how to efficiently bag. When everyone resorted to stupid plastic bags, that stopped and cashiers started putting one already-bagged bread product in a flimsy plastic bag by itself. Now they don't know how to pack a proper bag of groceries.


Unless you live somewhere where it is a 3-hour drive to the grocery store, this is completely unnecessary, bordering on insane.


It’s actually not insane and makes perfect sense to me. I’ve had ice pops start melting on the way home during summer and Meat keeps better too. I don’t bother w Ice packs in the insulated bags but keeping cold items together, in a zipped insulated bag, definitely makes a difference.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:28     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

It would never occur to me to even think about this.

You are being a bit obsessive.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:26     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You might have OCD. Learn to let go what you can't control.


Being annoyed by something does not make someone OCD.
p

Being annoyed that someone doesn't follow your rules for bag packing sounds like it. You can't control the world.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:24     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I almost always purposefully choose a line with someone in front of me so I have time to unpack my cart and organize before my stuff is ready to be scanned specifically so I can pack my own stuff (using self checkout at Wegmans at least is for those with small amount of items). Anyway today I got ushered into a newly open line and of course that meant that the person was scanning as soon as I got stuff on the belt and packing for me. Didn’t matter how I grouped things on the belt, she decided they needed to be all mixed up. I like packing like with like, with cold stuff in the cold bags — 1 cold bag for raw meat and the other for all other cold. I like all my produce in one bag. I organized as such on the belt but now I’m left with a mishmash of stuff. Call me particular but this super frustrates me.

Am I alone in this? Sure I could’ve asked her to stop but I didn’t want to hold up the growing line behind me.


You are not alone. I specifically unload my items so that
(1) the cold items get packed into the insulated bags
(2) they are organized for quick and easy unloading and putting away when I get home and
(3) they don't pack bags too heavily (ie, putting all the cans and jars in the same bag) because I have neck and shoulder and wrist issues.

I even layout the insulated bags followed by the cold items, then the non-insulated bags followed by the rest of the items. And I specifically separate the canned/jarred items into smaller groups with lighter items/boxed items/breads in between so they can go on top of some cans and jars in each bag instead of all the cans and jars going into the same bag. Despite this, cashiers bag items according to how they see fit - usually by putting all of the canned and glass jarred items - and maybe even cartons of milk - in the same bag; filling each bag as much as possible regardless of with what while also being perfectly happy to put one bag of chips in its own bag; and just sticking random items wherever they might fit.

I guess the other commenters on this thread will find me even more impossible a person than OP because I also find it very annoying that cashiers can't figure out the simplest of bagging logic of how to fill a bag of just boxed items like pasta and cereal. Or not to put grapes or strawberries on the bottom underneath heavier items.

I self-check out at Aldi; but Safeway and Giant, not unless I have to. There isn't enough space and there is always an issue, and as I already noted, I have neck and shoulder and wrist issues. Aldi affords more space for multiple bags and maneuvering everything - I don't know, it just does for me so please don't start criticizing me. Sometimes if the cashier hasn't started bagging stuff and I'm done with the unloading and payment machine, I will start bagging or grab bags before they're too heavy. I also ask for certain things as they scan, like "please don't make the bags too heavy" or "could you please put the ____ in the _____ bag" or even "I'll take that" or "that can go in here."

Groceries USED to train their employees how to efficiently bag. When everyone resorted to stupid plastic bags, that stopped and cashiers started putting one already-bagged bread product in a flimsy plastic bag by itself. Now they don't know how to pack a proper bag of groceries.


Unless you live somewhere where it is a 3-hour drive to the grocery store, this is completely unnecessary, bordering on insane.
Anonymous
Post 03/23/2025 14:22     Subject: Anyone else hate when the cashier packs for you?

Control freaks