Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 09:58     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Thank you DCUM, you always deliver.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 09:55     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:Why dodge? Go shopping at the mall for a few hours, leave, then turn around and do some more shopping. The PI is on the clock charging your STBX for all the time they are following you


Right, or go the other direction and volunteer for the gideons dropping off bibles to every hotel in the area to completely confuse the PI.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 09:54     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My xH hired one after we separated.

While it was a mindf*** for me at the time (he’d call me up screaming if I went on a date), ultimately it didn’t really do anything but waste his money. Judges don’t care.


You were “dating” before the separation.


Judges don’t care if someone is dating before or after the separate, they don’t care about affairs. Law is pretty straightforward, everything is 50/50. Hiring a PI just makes you look crazy.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 09:38     Subject: Re:How to dodge a PI?
I assumed PI meant public intoxication and that this was my husband's ex posting
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 09:32     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Stop doing immoral, illegal, bad things, and you have nothing to worry about.
All that sneaking, lying catches up with you.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 09:05     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:First you need a rental car in case there is a tracker in yours. If you carry the same daily jacket, bag, etc, ditch those too.

After you get the rental (don’t leave it alone, even for a minute), casually slide your phone onto someone else’s stuff in case it is being tracked (slip it into a stranger’s bag or a car) or you could just remove all the locking mechanisms and put it somewhere full of poverty and/or very young people.

When you’re driving, either speed through the light right after it turns red or maybe drive onto the shoulder of the highway right after an exit, then reverse to the exit and disappear.

Good luck!


Mon dieu. This is about the most practical advice I’ve ever read on dcum.



lol!!
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 09:00     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
I so wanted this to be about someone who had entered a pie-throwing contest and forgotten the "e" in the title.

But it's entertaining anyway.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 07:39     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Judge away and I have my reasons, but if you have a punitive STBX, how would you evade a PA following you?


Ask Luigi or Mark Rosario


Not successful
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 07:38     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:My xH hired one after we separated.

While it was a mindf*** for me at the time (he’d call me up screaming if I went on a date), ultimately it didn’t really do anything but waste his money. Judges don’t care.


You were “dating” before the separation.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 07:21     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:First you need a rental car in case there is a tracker in yours. If you carry the same daily jacket, bag, etc, ditch those too.

After you get the rental (don’t leave it alone, even for a minute), casually slide your phone onto someone else’s stuff in case it is being tracked (slip it into a stranger’s bag or a car) or you could just remove all the locking mechanisms and put it somewhere full of poverty and/or very young people.

When you’re driving, either speed through the light right after it turns red or maybe drive onto the shoulder of the highway right after an exit, then reverse to the exit and disappear.

Good luck!


Lol
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 07:20     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:Confront them. And start following them. They can't do anything to you.


Usually the PI during separation periods is hired during child custody time to prove one parent is negligent or a danger to the kid(s). and it works.

All the time is something different… is this a troll post?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 07:18     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:Judge away and I have my reasons, but if you have a punitive STBX, how would you evade a PA following you?


Ask Luigi or Mark Rosario
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 06:53     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:First you need a rental car in case there is a tracker in yours. If you carry the same daily jacket, bag, etc, ditch those too.

After you get the rental (don’t leave it alone, even for a minute), casually slide your phone onto someone else’s stuff in case it is being tracked (slip it into a stranger’s bag or a car) or you could just remove all the locking mechanisms and put it somewhere full of poverty and/or very young people.

When you’re driving, either speed through the light right after it turns red or maybe drive onto the shoulder of the highway right after an exit, then reverse to the exit and disappear.

Good luck!


Good advice. Also only use cash, small bills. Nothing larger than $20s
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2025 06:30     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
My xH hired one after we separated.

While it was a mindf*** for me at the time (he’d call me up screaming if I went on a date), ultimately it didn’t really do anything but waste his money. Judges don’t care.
Anonymous
Post 03/19/2025 23:43     Subject: How to dodge a PI?
Anonymous wrote:Why dodge? Go shopping at the mall for a few hours, leave, then turn around and do some more shopping. The PI is on the clock charging your STBX for all the time they are following you


This is brilliant.