Do it. Then decide. Take it a year at a time. I think you will be pleasantly surprised with 3rd grade at maury compared to your earlier experience. You have some time to make a plan for middle school. Basis is not all that hard to lottery into - although I would not myself go that route. EH is substantially improved in recent years, has math and english acceleration, and is no longer such a crazy middle school choice. $$$ saved by public elementary school can be significant.