My super organized and sweet MIL used to cook early in the morning. It was the first chore that got done and it has been a life hack.
- Create a detailed menu for all meals and snacks for a week. Put the menu on a excel spreadsheet so you can reuse
- Use the menu to do grocery shopping. Also, go shopping in your pantry and fridge/freezer first.
- Some prep can be done in the previous night - marinate meats, make meatballs (kofta), make boiled eggs, soak beans, prepare dough, set yogurt, chop veggies, shell peas, start the sprouts.
- Have a fair idea of what is the minimum amount of veggies, fruits, protein, dairy, healthy fats, nuts and seeds, carbs your family must have to be in good health. Your menu has to be based around that. Remember beverages or liquid foods can help you meet those goals. I am talking about drinks like nut milk, keffir, yogurt based drinks, lentil soups, veg soups, bone broth etc.
- Do some processing of ingredients as you put your groceries away. For example, I will peel onions and put all of them in a large ziplock bag (double bag) in my veggi bin in the fridge, or I will peel garlics and put in a glass bottle in the fridge etc after I get them home after grocery shopping. Herbs are washed, dried and kept in the fridge.
- My preference is to use the least amount of commercial pre-processed food if I can help it. So, I am mainly making things from scratch and making fresh food every day. Healthier for my kids and more cost effective.
- Get into the habit of building some courses in each meal that does not require cooking (or it can be precooked). For example, I prefer not to have any tea or coffee but crave something hot to drink. A light veggi soup or bone broth based soup can make me feel energized. Similarly, I drink a lot of cold beverage based on veggies. Like a cucumber-mint-lemon drink - instead of cola. Or a spiced buttermilk drink.
- Have some fruits and veggies first in each meal. Begin your meals by making your kids eat sliced fruits, follow it up with some veggies like cucumber, roasted cauliflower, sweet potato, tomatoes with healthy dips like Tzaziki,
hummus, baba ganoush or raita. You can use salad dressing also.
- You can saute a bunch of veggies separately and put it in omelettes, lasagna, rolls, sandwiches, curries etc. I usually will have sauted onions, bell peppers, snow peas, zucchini, carrots, eggplants etc already in the fridge to be used as I wish. I also keep boiled sweet potatoes, boiled beets, boiled potatoes and boiled eggs handy. It is so easy to convert them in a salad, side dish or sandwich.
- A typical meal in my house will have a lentil soupy dish (daal), paired with a starch (rice, bread, other grains), one or two vegetable sides, and sometimes an animal protein.
So, at a minimum I will make a lentil (daal) in my pressure cooker, rice or quinoa with tons of frozen mix veggies and spices in my rice cooker, one vegetable dish. I will inevitably have some leftovers in the fridge, and some soup too.
- At meal time - my teens will help to set the table, warm the food, cut fruits, cut salad, make raita, dish out the soup, portion out desserts that contain nuts, seeds etc.
You cannot do it without the help of your family. Please make even the young kids help. They can at least help to load and unload the dishwasher or vacuum the floor. They can pack their lunch. They can make good choices regarding snacks. Also, kitchen gadgets like Dash Egg Cookers can be safely used by teens to make boiled eggs.
Teach your kids recipes.