Anonymous
Post 01/15/2025 08:16     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Anonymous wrote:Your mother is profoundly stupid. And probably a little mean.

+1
Gotta agree.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2025 07:45     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
I definitely prefer Chinese or Indian or igbo names to American stripper names or American boring suburban white mom names. But maybe that's because I don't really find American stripper or suburban white mom types all that appealing.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2025 05:51     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
My DH was almost named Oliver and I have told him that I would never have dated an Oliver. Especially in his case as he looked like Cousin Oliver when he was little.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2025 04:08     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some names are pretty bad. I tend not to like dumb woman names. You know. Stripper names.
I once had a really smart, really accomplished client whose first name was Bambi. I think when you get to know a person the name ceases to carry that much weight.


I used to work with an accountant named Honey. She was great, but her manager did ask her if he could call her by her middle name.


How did she take it?
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2025 00:44     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
I had an abusive ex and would struggle to date someone with his name. PTSD is real.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2025 00:37     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
My dad and spouse have the same name, it does not bother me.

However, I hate my spouse's last name so I kept my own. But to be honest I would have kept my last name regardless.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 23:21     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
I know a Nimrod. Hungarian.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 22:26     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some names are pretty bad. I tend not to like dumb woman names. You know. Stripper names.
I once had a really smart, really accomplished client whose first name was Bambi. I think when you get to know a person the name ceases to carry that much weight.


I used to work with an accountant named Honey. She was great, but her manager did ask her if he could call her by her middle name.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 22:13     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Anonymous wrote:No but I definitely considered last name. I didn't want to be Mrs Butt for example.




Hey I know a lot of Mrs butts in the area
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 22:03     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Anonymous wrote:I would never want any overly ethnic names, whether first or last name. If they were ok with a normal sounding nickname I’d reconsider. If last name is weird though they’d have to be ok with kids taking my name.


If I ever meet a woman who thinks like this imbecile I hope she tells me this nonsense. I'll dump her as fast as I can. You are truly one idiotic woman.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 22:00     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Anonymous wrote:I would never want any overly ethnic names, whether first or last name. If they were ok with a normal sounding nickname I’d reconsider. If last name is weird though they’d have to be ok with kids taking my name.


It's funny you say that because I went to an international school in Africa and they were a few Americans among us. As easy as you think American names sound we had so much trouble spelling them and found some of the names weird too.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:52     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Anonymous wrote:Some names are pretty bad. I tend not to like dumb woman names. You know. Stripper names.
I once had a really smart, really accomplished client whose first name was Bambi. I think when you get to know a person the name ceases to carry that much weight.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:49     Subject: Re:Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
I'd have a tough time dating someone with the same name as my ex, but might be able to get over it.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:34     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Some names are pretty bad. I tend not to like dumb woman names. You know. Stripper names.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 19:47     Subject: Would you refuse to date someone based on their first name?
Huh? No. I thought you were going to say the name in question was your siblings name or your abusers name or something. Just a name you don’t like? Not a problem.