Anonymous
01/13/2025 10:49
Subject: Empowerment Club for black girls?!
Anonymous wrote:
We had this issue several years ago when one of our kids was in a classroom with a teacher who heavily favored the black kids. Like overtly and by a lot. I cannot tell you how awkward those conversations were.
This is common enough in all directions everywhere. Principals are in my experience pretty flexible and move your kid (especially if you’re a UMC parent who they’re desperate to keep, regardless of race). You will not fix the teacher, every teacher has some issues with some kids- even good kids and good teachers can be oil and water. The problem is when the admin tries to gaslight you about the issues.
Anonymous
01/13/2025 10:47
Subject: Empowerment Club for black girls?!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.
black empowerment talk is OK, and it’s a tradition in DCPS. The clubs just need to be open to all. We also go to a 90% black school and my white kid has no interest in going to the black empowerment club (unless they have good snacks, in which case he’s there).
It is open to all. The news article confirms this.
Anonymous
01/13/2025 10:46
Subject: Empowerment Club for black girls?!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.
The complaint is vague, but the email addresses on the flyer they list are for teachers at Hearst.
Well then the lawsuit is especially stupid because who is going to argue it's wrong to have an empowerment group for black girls at a school that is only 20% black? It's totally reasonable.
This has to be satire.
Anonymous
01/13/2025 10:45
Subject: Empowerment Club for black girls?!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The problem is that instead of just having a club for girls or a club celebrating a particular cultural group -- which probably could have gotten them close to what they wanted -- they worded this in a way that's at least potentially illegal, and someone who doesn't like them decided to draw attention to it. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
If you read the article they are inclusive of all genders and races. So no it's not worded poorly nor possibly illegal, it's a frivolous lawsuit brought by a bunch of white supremacists to undermine educational resources for anyone who isn't a white male. And if they win it'll be because the courts are stacked with white supremacists and we live in an era of fascism.
If you can't see that than either you agree with the white supremacists or you're so far up your own privilege you think anything not worded specifically with you in mind is bad.
I think the lawsuit is silly but you calling everyone who doesn't 100% agree with the way you see things a "white supremacist" is perhaps even sillier.
I mean it's a group of white supremacists who are suing a school in another state for promoting the well being of Black girls despite the club being open to all genders and races. It's no different than suing someone for the existence of a Jewish Student Union or an Italian heritage society.
This is the key point. No other identity-based clubs are being targeted, despite the fact that they all exist to celebrate/empower certain identity groups. All of these groups are open to all attendees, but only the groups focused on Black identity get sued. Why is that?
In DCPS, there are no empowerment groups for Jewish kids or like culture clubs for kids with French heritage. Maybe at some of the majority white schools in upper NW? But even then I doubt it.
The lawsuit is stupid but DCPS has a diversity problem in that they don't know how to do diversity. Most schools in DC have been majority black (like 80%+ or 90%+) as long as anyone can remember. No one knows how to handle a situation where white kids are in the minority (and sometimes actually harassed or teased for being white). There's no obvious solution. No white family in DCPS views itself as an oppressed minority, but it's hard to know how to handle a situation where your kid might be treated poorly specifically because of their race yet complaining about it makes YOU look like the racist.
We had this issue several years ago when one of our kids was in a classroom with a teacher who heavily favored the black kids. Like overtly and by a lot. I cannot tell you how awkward those conversations were.
Many schools in DCPS offer cultural awareness days and programming. Our majority Black school has always been welcoming of white Jewish families like my own.
I am, however, sorry that was your experience.
Anonymous
01/13/2025 10:45
Subject: Empowerment Club for black girls?!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
We had this issue several years ago when one of our kids was in a classroom with a teacher who heavily favored the black kids. Like overtly and by a lot. I cannot tell you how awkward those conversations were.
Haven’t run into this here, but have run into it in other places, and it’s common enough and principals are generally perceptive and flexible enough to move kids around. Teachers have preferences and biases, you are unlikely to fix them, just move the kids (and it’s not always a race thing, either, some good kids and good teachers are oil and water).
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.
I kinda agree, but I extend a lot more grace to elementary school kids who thought this was a good idea and hadn’t gamed out the ways this could go versus college kids (where I have had a few discussions with undergrads who hadn’t thought things through). I mean, the teachers probably shouldn’t expect to face law fare either.
Oh I'm certain the group was started with good intentions. But yeah there should be a bit better guidance from the school on how to do this in a way that is less likely upset people. I also would be curious to know what prompted the group. If there have been racist incidents that's a big problem and in addition to an empowerment group the school should be organizing discussions to address that. If it's just "hey it would be great if the black girls could get together and talk about their experiences sometimes," then I am certain no one at the school is bothered by it (or if they are I'd like to know why).AnonymousAnonymous wrote:I think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.
black empowerment talk is OK, and it’s a tradition in DCPS. The clubs just need to be open to all. We also go to a 90% black school and my white kid has no interest in going to the black empowerment club (unless they have good snacks, in which case he’s there).AnonymousAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.
The complaint is vague, but the email addresses on the flyer they list are for teachers at Hearst.
Well then the lawsuit is especially stupid because who is going to argue it's wrong to have an empowerment group for black girls at a school that is only 20% black? It's totally reasonable.AnonymousAnonymous wrote:I think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.
I kinda agree, but I extend a lot more grace to elementary school kids who thought this was a good idea and hadn’t gamed out the ways this could go versus college kids (where I have had a few discussions with undergrads who hadn’t thought things through). I mean, the teachers probably shouldn’t expect to face law fare either.AnonymousAnonymous wrote:I think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.
As a white parent whose white kids attend a predominantly Black DCPS school I am comfortable with the fact that not everything is about or for me. The school has done a great job of trying to expand all cultural awareness but not every event is going to be geared towards my kid and my family. I have two boys. I'm not upset at the fact that programming aimed at boosting women in STEM exists, that's wonderful!
The hate group goes out its way to avoid naming the school but the exhibits they cite show teachers from Hearst, a school that is predominantly white and less than 20% Black. So I imagine the group is especially important in a school that is whiter than the city itself.AnonymousAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The problem is that instead of just having a club for girls or a club celebrating a particular cultural group -- which probably could have gotten them close to what they wanted -- they worded this in a way that's at least potentially illegal, and someone who doesn't like them decided to draw attention to it. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
If you read the article they are inclusive of all genders and races. So no it's not worded poorly nor possibly illegal, it's a frivolous lawsuit brought by a bunch of white supremacists to undermine educational resources for anyone who isn't a white male. And if they win it'll be because the courts are stacked with white supremacists and we live in an era of fascism.
If you can't see that than either you agree with the white supremacists or you're so far up your own privilege you think anything not worded specifically with you in mind is bad.
I think the lawsuit is silly but you calling everyone who doesn't 100% agree with the way you see things a "white supremacist" is perhaps even sillier.
I mean it's a group of white supremacists who are suing a school in another state for promoting the well being of Black girls despite the club being open to all genders and races. It's no different than suing someone for the existence of a Jewish Student Union or an Italian heritage society.
This is the key point. No other identity-based clubs are being targeted, despite the fact that they all exist to celebrate/empower certain identity groups. All of these groups are open to all attendees, but only the groups focused on Black identity get sued. Why is that?
In DCPS, there are no empowerment groups for Jewish kids or like culture clubs for kids with French heritage. Maybe at some of the majority white schools in upper NW? But even then I doubt it.
The lawsuit is stupid but DCPS has a diversity problem in that they don't know how to do diversity. Most schools in DC have been majority black (like 80%+ or 90%+) as long as anyone can remember. No one knows how to handle a situation where white kids are in the minority (and sometimes actually harassed or teased for being white). There's no obvious solution. No white family in DCPS views itself as an oppressed minority, but it's hard to know how to handle a situation where your kid might be treated poorly specifically because of their race yet complaining about it makes YOU look like the racist.
We had this issue several years ago when one of our kids was in a classroom with a teacher who heavily favored the black kids. Like overtly and by a lot. I cannot tell you how awkward those conversations were.AnonymousAnonymous wrote:I think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.
The complaint is vague, but the email addresses on the flyer they list are for teachers at Hearst.AnonymousI think the lawsuit is BS. It's going to get thrown out. Do they even have standing? It's a VA parents group suing a program in DCPS. It's dumb.
BUT as an actual parent of a DCPS student, I think this was done kind of clumsily. Sure they are saying all students are welcome, but it's billed as an empowerment group for black girls. So as a practical matter, white kids and boys are not going to participate. I would also be curious about what school this was at -- that would make a big difference. If it's at one of the very few DCPS schools where black kids are in the minority, I can see the argument that you need an affinity group for this historically discriminated agains minority group.
If it's at one of the vast majority of DCPS schools with majority black populations... I don't get it. My kid's school is like 80% black. You could just start a group focused on empowerment of girls and it would essentially be an empowerment group for black girls. A few white girls might come but it wouldn't change the tone or content and actually would probably be good for the kids to discuss issues effecting girls in a mixed race environment -- they might understand each other better and it could help with some of the racial division that absolutely happens at these schools.
I am not so worried about the lawsuit -- whatever, that's just some racist parents sticking their noses where it doesn't belong. But DCPS does have challenges with integration, with helping girls in sometimes tough environments (there are also issues for boys and we could use groups focused on boys' issues actually), and the way this was done I think probably doesn't help unless you're talking about a school with a small population of black girls who need a place to talk about their experience which is different than that of most other kids at school.AnonymousAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The problem is that instead of just having a club for girls or a club celebrating a particular cultural group -- which probably could have gotten them close to what they wanted -- they worded this in a way that's at least potentially illegal, and someone who doesn't like them decided to draw attention to it. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
If you read the article they are inclusive of all genders and races. So no it's not worded poorly nor possibly illegal, it's a frivolous lawsuit brought by a bunch of white supremacists to undermine educational resources for anyone who isn't a white male. And if they win it'll be because the courts are stacked with white supremacists and we live in an era of fascism.
If you can't see that than either you agree with the white supremacists or you're so far up your own privilege you think anything not worded specifically with you in mind is bad.
I think the lawsuit is silly but you calling everyone who doesn't 100% agree with the way you see things a "white supremacist" is perhaps even sillier.
I mean it's a group of white supremacists who are suing a school in another state for promoting the well being of Black girls despite the club being open to all genders and races. It's no different than suing someone for the existence of a Jewish Student Union or an Italian heritage society.
This is the key point. No other identity-based clubs are being targeted, despite the fact that they all exist to celebrate/empower certain identity groups. All of these groups are open to all attendees, but only the groups focused on Black identity get sued. Why is that?AnonymousAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The problem is that instead of just having a club for girls or a club celebrating a particular cultural group -- which probably could have gotten them close to what they wanted -- they worded this in a way that's at least potentially illegal, and someone who doesn't like them decided to draw attention to it. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
If you read the article they are inclusive of all genders and races. So no it's not worded poorly nor possibly illegal, it's a frivolous lawsuit brought by a bunch of white supremacists to undermine educational resources for anyone who isn't a white male. And if they win it'll be because the courts are stacked with white supremacists and we live in an era of fascism.
If you can't see that than either you agree with the white supremacists or you're so far up your own privilege you think anything not worded specifically with you in mind is bad.
I think the lawsuit is silly but you calling everyone who doesn't 100% agree with the way you see things a "white supremacist" is perhaps even sillier.
I mean it's a group of white supremacists who are suing a school in another state for promoting the well being of Black girls despite the club being open to all genders and races. It's no different than suing someone for the existence of a Jewish Student Union or an Italian heritage society.