Nope. I give him the daily update.

Anonymous wrote:Yes. He's absolutely terrible in bed and is flawed in a lot of ways. He thinks I just deal with it with no outlet.

Lol is this my wife??

H and I have a decent marriage so he’d probably be shocked.

Mostly I just need a place to talk out my conflict with him. I don’t like talking to friends or family because I don’t like airing dirty laundry to them. Internet strangers are way better, and I can express how I feel without worrying my dad or best friend will pressure me to leave him.

I dont want to divorce, just sometimes I need a place to vent.

Anonymous wrote:Yes. He's absolutely terrible in bed and is flawed in a lot of ways. He thinks I just deal with it with no outlet.

What is terrible in bed for men?
One of my girl friend was a star fish in bed.

No

He knows how I feel about him so he wouldn’t be shocked. Well, maybe on a couple of things.

Nope. The thing that sealed the deal for me was that I could say anything to him .

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:lol yes. It fact, she knows my writing style pretty well and has often asked me if i have posted. I lie like a rug on that point, i feel like i should not have to answer for my posts here.

I bet you're the guy who always says "bang like a back door in a hurricane"

Hey that's me you're talking about!
And it's "bang her like a screen door in a hurricane" to be precise.

Yes. He's absolutely terrible in bed and is flawed in a lot of ways. He thinks I just deal with it with no outlet.

Anonymous wrote:Nope. I tell him about the crazy Bs on DCUM

Same. He doesn't use the site.

My ex would be shocked. She wasn't attracted to me and would be shocked to know how many nice and attractive women wanted to be with me after we divorced. My current GF wouldn't be shocked by why I wrote. She knows everything.

I do not care if she is shocked or not.

She can write what she wants, and I will do the same.

No

Anonymous wrote:I always tell my DH what I've posted and what is being posted. Discussion topics. I also tell my kids about some of them. The other day I mentioned a topic and son said: You read that on DCUM. 😂

That’s similar to my experience.

I think most people here are in decent marriages but need a place to vent. But we tend to exaggerate, because the truth is relatively tame and wouldn’t get a response.

So I think most spouses would be surprised because things really aren’t as bad as people make them seem.

I do think it’s a very normal, human behavior to vent…it’s just hard to vent to people in real life. But you vent, blow off the steam, and move on.