Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:57     Subject: Re:DH never says no to sex
Finally divorced after years of being rejected by my husband who refused to get tested for Low T or other issues. It's great to see all of these responses - and gives me hope I'll have fun again when I start dating, it's been a very, very long dry spell!
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:52     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH here: my DW never initiates, so this is a kind of a theoretical question, but I can see turning her down in cases of illness or rather extreme fatigue. Most men are up for sex 95%+ of the time so this is quite normal. In the scenario you posit, he wasn’t horny at that moment, but the mere mention of sex changed that relatively quickly. This too is normal. Sex is an ever present desire for most men in ways most women don’t understand. Low T can change that a lot though, as can SSRIs

Not when the wife is fat


My wifes weight has fluctuated significantly. Never lost the desire.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:40     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Guy here. We're afraid that if we reject it once, we might never see it again, or for a long time. LOL.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:37     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is weird, no? The other day we went skiing and he had a bad fall and hurt himself. Later we were lounging back at the condo and I suggested sex. At first he said no he is too sore and I was fine with it. But then 20 min later he was like, does the offer still stand??? Lmao. Poor thing was obviously struggling too.

I got to thinking about it and he has literally never said no to sex in 20 years. Meanwhile, I sometimes make up having a “bad period” when I don’t feel like it.

Is this normal for men and women? It makes me feel kinda bad for men.


I am going to try and be kind, but is this news to you? Men have much higher sex drives than women. It is literally in their DNA to spread their seed.

+1
I personally try to spread my seed as far and wide as possible.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:37     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:In almost forty years with a HL wife, I have never said no that I can recall. I figure it’s my duty, and it’s a pleasant one!


He heh

Well done

-another HL woman
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:30     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:This is weird, no? The other day we went skiing and he had a bad fall and hurt himself. Later we were lounging back at the condo and I suggested sex. At first he said no he is too sore and I was fine with it. But then 20 min later he was like, does the offer still stand??? Lmao. Poor thing was obviously struggling too.

I got to thinking about it and he has literally never said no to sex in 20 years. Meanwhile, I sometimes make up having a “bad period” when I don’t feel like it.

Is this normal for men and women? It makes me feel kinda bad for men.


I am going to try and be kind, but is this news to you? Men have much higher sex drives than women. It is literally in their DNA to spread their seed.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:27     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In almost forty years with a HL wife, I have never said no that I can recall. I figure it’s my duty, and it’s a pleasant one!

Gotta ask, what is a HL wife?


Short for hallucinatory.

Not true.
High Libido
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:10     Subject: DH never says no to sex
The only time I've not wanted sex, regardless of who initiated was when I was really sick with high fever, or recovering from surgery or serious injury and on pain killers.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:05     Subject: DH never says no to sex
The one time it happened I cried I felt so rejected.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:02     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:DH here: my DW never initiates, so this is a kind of a theoretical question, but I can see turning her down in cases of illness or rather extreme fatigue. Most men are up for sex 95%+ of the time so this is quite normal. In the scenario you posit, he wasn’t horny at that moment, but the mere mention of sex changed that relatively quickly. This too is normal. Sex is an ever present desire for most men in ways most women don’t understand. Low T can change that a lot though, as can SSRIs

Not when the wife is fat
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 12:01     Subject: Re:DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:He rarely says no and one time when he did my libido was on fire and I said I really need it and need it now. That definitely got his attention and we had a pretty wild time.

If the genders were reversed, women here would be piling on the husband
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 11:52     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:OP, you are very lucky.


+1
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 11:46     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In almost forty years with a HL wife, I have never said no that I can recall. I figure it’s my duty, and it’s a pleasant one!

Gotta ask, what is a HL wife?


Short for hallucinatory.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 11:37     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:In almost forty years with a HL wife, I have never said no that I can recall. I figure it’s my duty, and it’s a pleasant one!

Gotta ask, what is a HL wife?
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2024 11:34     Subject: DH never says no to sex
Anonymous wrote:In almost forty years with a HL wife, I have never said no that I can recall. I figure it’s my duty, and it’s a pleasant one!


+1

Reject sex, yes. Reject sex with my wife, never.