Anonymous
12/29/2024 20:18
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
It must be you, OP. You are so hot and desirable that married men can’t help themselves, right?
Anonymous
12/29/2024 20:09
Subject: Re:Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Quite pathetic...
Anonymous
12/29/2024 20:06
Subject: Re:Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mid 40s guys are not going to make passes at mid 40s women. Don’t be delusional. The only exception might be women in heat who put themselves out there.
You're right....it's the mid to late 30's guys that are hitting on us.
They want the MILFs lol. I don't blame them though.
Anonymous
12/29/2024 19:53
Subject: Re:Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Anonymous wrote:Mid 40s guys are not going to make passes at mid 40s women. Don’t be delusional. The only exception might be women in heat who put themselves out there.
You're right....it's the mid to late 30's guys that are hitting on us.
Anonymous
12/26/2024 15:18
Subject: Re:Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Anonymous wrote:Mid 40s guys are not going to make passes at mid 40s women. Don’t be delusional. The only exception might be women in heat who put themselves out there.
Of course they hit on attractive married women. Most men would never tell a difference between a good looking 45 yo and 38-39 yo woman. I’ve proven it by experience. It’s all social conditioning about dating younger. 30s women are not interested in married dads of several kids. They want own babies with free men. Most cheating happens between married people
Anonymous
12/26/2024 15:17
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Just take it as a compliment, and politely deflect. Just because men (or women) are now in their middle-age, does not mean we are corpses. We are all human, and have now fully "matured" in our middle age; men and women are seemingly more attractive, and not sexually dead.
This is life, likely been going on since Adam saw Eve wearing a leaf and said "hey sexy mama."
This is life, likely been going on since Adam saw Eve wearing a leaf and said "hey sexy mama."
Anonymous
12/26/2024 15:07
Subject: Re:Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Mid 40s guys are not going to make passes at mid 40s women. Don’t be delusional. The only exception might be women in heat who put themselves out there.
Anonymous
12/26/2024 14:48
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Anonymous wrote:They are looking for validation.
Men have a rather short period of prime. Their libido&physique peaks around age 25 and gradually weans in the 30s, and cliffs after 40.
Not being able to perform as before or at all is a common source of frustration and self-doubt in men 40+ so they are desperately to look for validation
I agree with you that we peak sexually much sooner than women. However unlike women we do not delusionally believe that we are still "attractive or hot" or look like "mid 20s" well into our 40s. Viagra helps us performs a bit longer and weight lifting helps with the stamina. Women though especially on this forum have an incredibly delusional view of themselves as they age.
Anonymous
12/26/2024 14:09
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Anonymous wrote:You say colleagues, so you work, right? Do these guys have stay at home wives?
I’ve found around that age, men who have SAHWs get bored and start wishing they had married a woman who worked. For one, they don’t really have much in common with their wives anymore, and two, they resent that their wife spends “their” money.
Absolute BS, of course. Those same guys would be upset if they were married to me and had to spend all their free time cooking, cleaning, and raising kids.
My exH cheated with a corporate wh...e. He screamed at me "I don't need a cook at home!". Guess what? They broke up shortly after divorce and he's now dating a woman way below my level in career and education: if he ends up marrying her, he'll just get the same he had, maybe a few years younger version of me.
Anonymous
12/26/2024 13:50
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
You say colleagues, so you work, right? Do these guys have stay at home wives?
I’ve found around that age, men who have SAHWs get bored and start wishing they had married a woman who worked. For one, they don’t really have much in common with their wives anymore, and two, they resent that their wife spends “their” money.
Absolute BS, of course. Those same guys would be upset if they were married to me and had to spend all their free time cooking, cleaning, and raising kids.
I’ve found around that age, men who have SAHWs get bored and start wishing they had married a woman who worked. For one, they don’t really have much in common with their wives anymore, and two, they resent that their wife spends “their” money.
Absolute BS, of course. Those same guys would be upset if they were married to me and had to spend all their free time cooking, cleaning, and raising kids.
Anonymous
12/26/2024 13:38
Subject: Re:Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
They're flirting just to see if they still have it because the clock is ticking. It's mostly harmless unless you really want the attention.
Anonymous
12/26/2024 13:17
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Holidays, for me they’ve always been a horny time.
Anonymous
12/26/2024 13:13
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
They are looking for validation.
Men have a rather short period of prime. Their libido&physique peaks around age 25 and gradually weans in the 30s, and cliffs after 40.
Not being able to perform as before or at all is a common source of frustration and self-doubt in men 40+ so they are desperately to look for validation
Men have a rather short period of prime. Their libido&physique peaks around age 25 and gradually weans in the 30s, and cliffs after 40.
Not being able to perform as before or at all is a common source of frustration and self-doubt in men 40+ so they are desperately to look for validation
Anonymous
12/26/2024 12:13
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
Anonymous wrote:I am 45 and I don't think its common for us to be looking at other married women. Perhaps the women in their 40s are begging for attention as well and "seeing things" that are not there.
Lol
Anonymous
12/26/2024 12:03
Subject: Mid-40 married colleagues suddenly making passes
The men I know are super into sex at that age, and women are not unless recently divorced.