Anonymous wrote:Corner ties are important. If you don’t have them, add them. Additionally, about 1X/week, stand at one side and shake the duvet to even out the poofy parts. This is the norm for a duvet cover. When you see duvet covers made up on a beautiful bed at Pottery Barn, remember that no one is sleeping on these beds. This is the nature of the beast. If adjustments are not for you, buy a comforter.
OP here. I addressed all of this in my original post. Yes corner ties are tied. Yes I do all the shaking and redistribution - that helps a little, but it's still looking sloppy. At least my bed is comfy, just looks bad. Finding great solidarity here in everyone else chiming in with the same gripe!