Anonymous wrote:Open a separate brokerage account and use for things that would have meaning for or remind you of the source of the money.
I am in a similar situation (retirement etc in good shape) and received a similar windfall and it has been devoted to spending a bit more than I would otherwise in ways that I know my relative would appreciate.
Yep, did the same. The money is not "working for us forever" as it would invested in a long-term index fund, but we are spending it meaningfully and in a way that honors the memory of our family member who died.