Your problem is not what your W thinks about you going to some lame, sad strip club. It's your dead bedroom but of course you know that. Focus on that. If she comes home from that show all fired up, good for you. Whatever it takes. You going to a strip club isn't going to help her get there at all. She know's her denying you makes you frustrated so she sure doesn't want you drooling over naked women that aren't her. Cruel as that sounds, that's your situation.

Please tell me you didn’t try to take your stepford wife to a strip club?

NO it’s not the same thing as chippendales where they don’t even take anything off.

Anonymous wrote:Both are incredibly lame.

Dude, your energy should be put into goal achieving instead of tension relieving.
Yes I know it’s a stupid saying but you’re looking to go to a strip club to unload 200 bucks on a girl at the end of her rope working the dayshift?
You need to redo, clean your life up and maybe you and your wife can connect and give each other something that spray tan, trenbolone, silicone and borderline personality disorder can’t match.

Agree with this.

A woman's group I'm in had an end-of-year party and as a surprise they got a sexy Santa. Was so gross and dumb I left. Middle aged people groping someone half their age who is paid to pretend to like it is just pathetic.

Anonymous wrote:You are a grown man, if you want to go to a strip club, go. If your wife is going to divorce you because you looked at some boobs, she is going to find an excuse to divorce you anyways.

That said, a Chippendales show is nothing like a strip club.

+1

Anonymous wrote:Both are incredibly lame.

Dude, your energy should be put into goal achieving instead of tension relieving.
Yes I know it’s a stupid saying but you’re looking to go to a strip club to unload 200 bucks on a girl at the end of her rope working the dayshift?
You need to redo, clean your life up and maybe you and your wife can connect and give each other something that spray tan, trenbolone, silicone and borderline personality disorder can’t match.

Just think about what $200 could do for your wife! A little date night, new lingerie, a babysitter, etc.

Anonymous wrote:Both are incredibly lame.

Dude, your energy should be put into goal achieving instead of tension relieving.
Yes I know it’s a stupid saying but you’re looking to go to a strip club to unload 200 bucks on a girl at the end of her rope working the dayshift?
You need to redo, clean your life up and maybe you and your wife can connect and give each other something that spray tan, trenbolone, silicone and borderline personality disorder can’t match.

100% this

Anonymous wrote:Well seeing the entire world is almost all naked ladies, skimpy dressed women, bare breasts and butts nearly 24/7 and she want's to go to ONE Chippendales show, I'd say your ask is really tone deaf. Women are DUE to SEE some men with their shirts off MEN get to see women barely dressed A LOT, every ad, every tv show, every movie, literally every.where. Let her have ONE day of abs FFS.

Remember women are doing this to express themselves. Do you think men enjoy this?

Maybe I'm just a prude or out of touch but my personal opinion is that people in a marriage shouldn't need to get their jollies at places like this, husband or wife.

To me that's a sign of some other issues, but I may be really into my spouse, or maybe I'm just not good at sharing.

Both are incredibly lame.

Dude, your energy should be put into goal achieving instead of tension relieving.
Yes I know it’s a stupid saying but you’re looking to go to a strip club to unload 200 bucks on a girl at the end of her rope working the dayshift?
You need to redo, clean your life up and maybe you and your wife can connect and give each other something that spray tan, trenbolone, silicone and borderline personality disorder can’t match.