Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:10
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:I love in a wealthy area (not dc) and there are no busses to activities, no full day options for schools out days. I have elem age kids and always had full day childcare when they were little, but if I had to work in an office I would really struggle with finding coverage during the commute and days off, and it would likely necessitate a full time nanny.
This is a major downside to living in a wealthy area with lots of SAHMs. Preschools are only 3-4 hours per day. People have $$$$$ nannies on top of Montessori preschool tuition. Child care facilities are lacking. Private schools don’t offer aftercare.
Unless you move, You probably need an au pair for a few years.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:09
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are a lot of women employed FT in professional careers really saying they have no childcare? That's not what I've seen on DCUM. People are often talking about the extra time for commuting and difference of being out of the house. So like a 10yp may come home from school and not have childcare from 4-5pm because they can entertain themselves while parent works. But the parent may not want them actually alone in the house. It's a childcare gap. Same with the mornings before school opens - I would need beforecare to RTO and it might not be available this school year (already full). Or preschool may close at 5pm but with commute I'd get home later than that, etc.
WFH necessitates childcare if you have a real job but can be for fewer hours, or you cover the occasional days off and breaks without always taking PTO etc
OP here - I consider a childcare gap a lack of childcare. Before or after school care programs are not going to quickly sprout up.
+1
And even if kids can entertain themselves a bit or parents find programs, the kids can't magically transport themselves and they can't drive yet. So parents (all parents, dads too) need that flexibility after school. Strict RTO mean that these good employees will no longer be bending backwards to check mails and handle things after business hours.
I think you’re ranting about things you have no idea about. Kids can’t transport themselves? The aftercare programs all have buses and vans that pick up at our school. Parents don’t need to drive their kids to ballet or karate or gymnastics.
I'm so glad your data point of one is universal.
What does this mean?
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:06
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
I love in a wealthy area (not dc) and there are no busses to activities, no full day options for schools out days. I have elem age kids and always had full day childcare when they were little, but if I had to work in an office I would really struggle with finding coverage during the commute and days off, and it would likely necessitate a full time nanny.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:03
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:The issue for me is the 8-6 in office requirement. Right now, I work 8-5, pick up my kids, and then work a few more hours at home in the evening. Daycare closes at 6 and I have a 45 minute commute, so I'm not sure what I will go if the 8-6 requirement goes into effect.
A mandate that people now have to be in the office for 10 hours a day is not happening.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:03
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:The issue for me is the 8-6 in office requirement. Right now, I work 8-5, pick up my kids, and then work a few more hours at home in the evening. Daycare closes at 6 and I have a 45 minute commute, so I'm not sure what I will go if the 8-6 requirement goes into effect.
Why do you have to work 10 hours in office?? Most work is 8-4 or 9-5.
I do think we need stricter hour protections to make sure employers aren’t demanding 50 hour weeks while paying 40 hour week wages
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:00
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
I think a lot of the people that need to scramble now have no pre-Covid reference point for childcare for school-aged children. We are coming up on 5 years since the pandemic started and if your kid was in kindergarten then they really don’t need before/aftercare anymore. So telling these people just do what you did pre-Covid doesn’t mean anything to them.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:59
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are a lot of women employed FT in professional careers really saying they have no childcare? That's not what I've seen on DCUM. People are often talking about the extra time for commuting and difference of being out of the house. So like a 10yp may come home from school and not have childcare from 4-5pm because they can entertain themselves while parent works. But the parent may not want them actually alone in the house. It's a childcare gap. Same with the mornings before school opens - I would need beforecare to RTO and it might not be available this school year (already full). Or preschool may close at 5pm but with commute I'd get home later than that, etc.
WFH necessitates childcare if you have a real job but can be for fewer hours, or you cover the occasional days off and breaks without always taking PTO etc
OP here - I consider a childcare gap a lack of childcare. Before or after school care programs are not going to quickly sprout up.
+1
And even if kids can entertain themselves a bit or parents find programs, the kids can't magically transport themselves and they can't drive yet. So parents (all parents, dads too) need that flexibility after school. Strict RTO mean that these good employees will no longer be bending backwards to check mails and handle things after business hours.
I think you’re ranting about things you have no idea about. Kids can’t transport themselves? The aftercare programs all have buses and vans that pick up at our school. Parents don’t need to drive their kids to ballet or karate or gymnastics.
I'm so glad your data point of one is universal.
What school doesn't have that? Give us an example.
I do think most schools have that but the number of available spots in January or February when people may have to add a commute to their day is not large. At my school spots fill before school opens in the fall. I think it will be difficult for families with kids. Maybe childcare will give people at least a short term exemption through the school year.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:57
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
The issue for me is the 8-6 in office requirement. Right now, I work 8-5, pick up my kids, and then work a few more hours at home in the evening. Daycare closes at 6 and I have a 45 minute commute, so I'm not sure what I will go if the 8-6 requirement goes into effect.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:55
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are a lot of women employed FT in professional careers really saying they have no childcare? That's not what I've seen on DCUM. People are often talking about the extra time for commuting and difference of being out of the house. So like a 10yp may come home from school and not have childcare from 4-5pm because they can entertain themselves while parent works. But the parent may not want them actually alone in the house. It's a childcare gap. Same with the mornings before school opens - I would need beforecare to RTO and it might not be available this school year (already full). Or preschool may close at 5pm but with commute I'd get home later than that, etc.
WFH necessitates childcare if you have a real job but can be for fewer hours, or you cover the occasional days off and breaks without always taking PTO etc
OP here - I consider a childcare gap a lack of childcare. Before or after school care programs are not going to quickly sprout up.
+1
And even if kids can entertain themselves a bit or parents find programs, the kids can't magically transport themselves and they can't drive yet. So parents (all parents, dads too) need that flexibility after school. Strict RTO mean that these good employees will no longer be bending backwards to check mails and handle things after business hours.
I think you’re ranting about things you have no idea about. Kids can’t transport themselves? The aftercare programs all have buses and vans that pick up at our school. Parents don’t need to drive their kids to ballet or karate or gymnastics.
I'm so glad your data point of one is universal.
What school doesn't have that? Give us an example.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:55
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Flexible hours is the key.
When I was growing up my mom went back to work when I was 8 or 9. She got her sanity back from raising kids and housework.
She managed a small real estate office and worked school hours during the week and half a day on Saturday. It worked beautifully.
A couple of years later she switched to 9-5 and we entertained ourselves til mom got home. No big deal.
Just how helpless is your 11 year old?
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When I was growing up my mom went back to work when I was 8 or 9. She got her sanity back from raising kids and housework.
She managed a small real estate office and worked school hours during the week and half a day on Saturday. It worked beautifully.
A couple of years later she switched to 9-5 and we entertained ourselves til mom got home. No big deal.
Just how helpless is your 11 year old?
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Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:54
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are a lot of women employed FT in professional careers really saying they have no childcare? That's not what I've seen on DCUM. People are often talking about the extra time for commuting and difference of being out of the house. So like a 10yp may come home from school and not have childcare from 4-5pm because they can entertain themselves while parent works. But the parent may not want them actually alone in the house. It's a childcare gap. Same with the mornings before school opens - I would need beforecare to RTO and it might not be available this school year (already full). Or preschool may close at 5pm but with commute I'd get home later than that, etc.
WFH necessitates childcare if you have a real job but can be for fewer hours, or you cover the occasional days off and breaks without always taking PTO etc
OP here - I consider a childcare gap a lack of childcare. Before or after school care programs are not going to quickly sprout up.
+1
And even if kids can entertain themselves a bit or parents find programs, the kids can't magically transport themselves and they can't drive yet. So parents (all parents, dads too) need that flexibility after school. Strict RTO mean that these good employees will no longer be bending backwards to check mails and handle things after business hours.
I think you’re ranting about things you have no idea about. Kids can’t transport themselves? The aftercare programs all have buses and vans that pick up at our school. Parents don’t need to drive their kids to ballet or karate or gymnastics.
I'm so glad your data point of one is universal.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:52
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
This would equally affect many young dads from what I’ve seen. Not just the moms. The slack may then fall disproportionately to women to figure out though.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:48
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People will just have to do whatever they did before COVID.
My kids are 8,6,3. Before Covid they weren’t in school and were in daycare. Our school hours are super short and the day ends at 2:30. We do have aftercare but my kids would prefer to walk home and play outside with their friends while I finish working.
I personally think the solution is that the school day should be longer. If school ended at 3:30 or 4, a lot more people wouldn’t need aftercare.
If a fed doesn’t have childcare, they can be disciplined and fired. There’s no excuse.
Schools are schools, not childcare centers. Also, many schools offer extended day programs where you can pay to keep them there. Where do you live anyway? Sounds pretty backward.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:47
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are a lot of women employed FT in professional careers really saying they have no childcare? That's not what I've seen on DCUM. People are often talking about the extra time for commuting and difference of being out of the house. So like a 10yp may come home from school and not have childcare from 4-5pm because they can entertain themselves while parent works. But the parent may not want them actually alone in the house. It's a childcare gap. Same with the mornings before school opens - I would need beforecare to RTO and it might not be available this school year (already full). Or preschool may close at 5pm but with commute I'd get home later than that, etc.
WFH necessitates childcare if you have a real job but can be for fewer hours, or you cover the occasional days off and breaks without always taking PTO etc
OP here - I consider a childcare gap a lack of childcare. Before or after school care programs are not going to quickly sprout up.
+1
And even if kids can entertain themselves a bit or parents find programs, the kids can't magically transport themselves and they can't drive yet. So parents (all parents, dads too) need that flexibility after school. Strict RTO mean that these good employees will no longer be bending backwards to check mails and handle things after business hours.
I think you’re ranting about things you have no idea about. Kids can’t transport themselves? The aftercare programs all have buses and vans that pick up at our school. Parents don’t need to drive their kids to ballet or karate or gymnastics.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 08:46
Subject: RTO and No Childcare.
Anonymous wrote:People will just have to do whatever they did before COVID.
A lot of before and after care programs closed. So that won’t be possible until programs scale up again.