Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:10% of the population historically has had ADHD. No idea what % has ASD. The diagnostic criteria are clearer now, there is no stigma and the way school is run today makes the learning disability noticeable. I think in the past with smaller classes, lots of recess and PE time and lower sit in your seat bored, kids with mild ADHD were fine until high school.
OP here. Thanks to previous two PPs - both interesting takes. I was also thinking the way we live nowadays - hectic, competitive, always running and busy - both parents and kids, overbooked, etc. is hurting kids. The school days do seem so packed and incredibly structured, yet the time assgined for learning with the teachers seems tiny, sometimes i really wonder how teachers find any time to teach with all the paperwork and tracking they have to do.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mass-produced school is anti-human, so when school becomes normalized, humans become "abnormal".
This. I think public school needs to be one model and there needs to be at least one or two other models.
The one size fits all model is broken beyond repair and public school spend more time and money on fighting parents than it does helping children.
Teacher here. I also think the school day structure doesn’t help. We are asking kids to do 2 hours of LA and 60-80 mins of math daily. Imagine if each subject was 45 mins. We could have longer time for recess, daily science, and kids wouldn’t be forced to sit and attend to the same thing for so long. I grew up in the 90’s and never had 2 hours of Language Arts or a full hour for math.
I agree with this. Block scheduling is a disgrace.
Anonymous wrote:Except now it’s almost half of the class in some areas. So don’t say that it’s the same as it used to be. It isn’t.
Anonymous wrote:Mass-produced school is anti-human, so when school becomes normalized, humans become "abnormal".
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Reduced stigma leading to more people seeking a diagnosis, especially at young ages. In previous generations, those kids would have just been labeled as “disruptive.”
Higher expectations in high school and kids who were able to mask it well before then start floundering when faced with tough classes, multiple deadlines, possibly also a job, and after school activities. In earlier generations, some high schoolers didn’t even go to school for a full day. Or they dropped out and started working in a factory or what have you.
Agree with a lot of this. Kids didn't get help in earlier decades, they were just labeled disruptive, or shy, or "smart but won't put in effort," or immature, or whatever.
My DH very obviously has ADHD and my MIL is in total denial, she will laugh about his quirks as a kid but not see that it's a condition that could have been treated. He dropped out of college due to executive functioning issues. I myself spent all of 4th grade chewing my sleeves and shirt collars to shreds in the classroom, and nobody said "Maybe get that kid evaluated for anxiety." Zero teachers said anything at all, and my loving and medically trained parents said "Hey, stop ruining your shirts."
I also think the executive functioning we expect of kids now is overwhelming. We ask them to sit still too long, absorb and carry a lot of information, and do too much after school. Kids need more sleep and more physical activity, even NT kids who are doing fine in school. I personally don't think the answer is more free time to be on screens, so much as different kinds of organized activities - outdoor activity, music, art, community service, work with younger kids, shelve books at the library, etc. Ways to use all the parts of their brains and bodies.
Anonymous wrote:Reduced stigma leading to more people seeking a diagnosis, especially at young ages. In previous generations, those kids would have just been labeled as “disruptive.”
Higher expectations in high school and kids who were able to mask it well before then start floundering when faced with tough classes, multiple deadlines, possibly also a job, and after school activities. In earlier generations, some high schoolers didn’t even go to school for a full day. Or they dropped out and started working in a factory or what have you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mass-produced school is anti-human, so when school becomes normalized, humans become "abnormal".
This. I think public school needs to be one model and there needs to be at least one or two other models.
The one size fits all model is broken beyond repair and public school spend more time and money on fighting parents than it does helping children.
Teacher here. I also think the school day structure doesn’t help. We are asking kids to do 2 hours of LA and 60-80 mins of math daily. Imagine if each subject was 45 mins. We could have longer time for recess, daily science, and kids wouldn’t be forced to sit and attend to the same thing for so long. I grew up in the 90’s and never had 2 hours of Language Arts or a full hour for math.
I agree with this. Block scheduling is a disgrace.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My daughter has ADHD and dyslexia. You blaming me for that is pretty disgusting.
I’m not sure who you’re talking to — maybe the PP who said poor parenting? I’m curious what you mean by “blaming”. Would you consider it blaming if it turns out you and your spouse have gene variants that combined to increase the risk for one or both of these diagnoses? They do go hand in hand fairly often.
There are so many genes that influence brain development, cognition, and behavior. And they interact with the environment which can include parenting. I think if we knew more about all of this, and if we had more widespread genetic testing, we would all have a better understanding of why we and/or our kids have various diagnoses. And there would be a lot less blame and guilt along with more resources to help parents learn how they can influence their children’s outcomes positively.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mass-produced school is anti-human, so when school becomes normalized, humans become "abnormal".
This. I think public school needs to be one model and there needs to be at least one or two other models.
The one size fits all model is broken beyond repair and public school spend more time and money on fighting parents than it does helping children.
Teacher here. I also think the school day structure doesn’t help. We are asking kids to do 2 hours of LA and 60-80 mins of math daily. Imagine if each subject was 45 mins. We could have longer time for recess, daily science, and kids wouldn’t be forced to sit and attend to the same thing for so long. I grew up in the 90’s and never had 2 hours of Language Arts or a full hour for math.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mass-produced school is anti-human, so when school becomes normalized, humans become "abnormal".
This. I think public school needs to be one model and there needs to be at least one or two other models.
The one size fits all model is broken beyond repair and public school spend more time and money on fighting parents than it does helping children.