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Anonymous wrote:Well OP I would avoid men who sleep around. I view them as people not concerned with their health among other things.

That is precisley why I say my bpdy count is 8

-signed, very attractive man, 43, lawyer, body count of 120ish

LOL You threw in the lawyer part in to impress us. Sorry, but lawyers are like realtors, decent job so what. Ok you're an attractive loser lol. We got it.

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Anonymous wrote:Promiscuous people are at every age. We know a guy who is just awful. He has been in relationships with women but hides he is also Bi. He's into the swinger life-style. I feel sorry for the women he dates because they need check up on him beforehand, as they are putting their health at great risk. He's attractive as well. I know if I were single I would thoroughly check out that person before getting involved.

Do you know if he’s active or passive with men?

Active. I think he's the pitcher and catcher.

Pardon, does it mean he’s taking as well? Not sure I understand

He's a giver and receiver. Both sexes.

Hope he uses condoms and tests often..,

No, he doesn't like many!

I’ve never had anyone tell me their body count and I’ve never asked. I’ve never told my husband mine and he’s never said his. All I know is that he had enough experience to make my eyes roll the first time we slept together.

Anonymous wrote:Well OP I would avoid men who sleep around. I view them as people not concerned with their health among other things.

That is precisley why I say my bpdy count is 8

-signed, very attractive man, 43, lawyer, body count of 120ish

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Anonymous wrote:I am hot as hell. I don’t discuss my body count. If a lady asks, I tell her she doesn’t need to worry her pretty little head about it. We’re still gonna bang. If she wants me enough to ask, I know I am gonna be inside her soon.

Do you have herpes?

PP is gross. One of my relatives got Herpes. Of course, most don't tell because no one would have sex with them. My DH's nephew died of an aids related cancer. If I were dating and serious we would both get a clean bill of health. This is what stable people do, PP is not stable, or a troll lol.

I’m a woman and always ask for see the std panel . Many guys disappear after that. I presume it didn’t clear or they are sleeping around a lot and don’t want to take tests for me. Good enough reason to move on and don’t engage
If more women were using this approach in dating instead of hooking up, then men wouldn’t treat us like s…t

You are one of the few smart women I've seen. If you're willing to do a current one, they should too. When they refuse you know all you need to.

I’m on a 3rd partner 3years post divorce using this very careful approach. I basically slept only with the men I could trust and where I could envision something long term, and who also could provide a clean bill of health before sex.

Based on my own count in my 40s (total lifetime 5 but I was married for 18 years and exH was second partner), I would think people who were not married long term have count in dozens. I don’t ask -just take it as given - just ask for std test to protect my own health.

Anonymous wrote:So I am interested in two attractive men and they are 33 and 37 with body counts of less than 8. According to scum women attractive men are drowning in p. So could these men be lying?

Of course they could be lying. Men are usually encouraged to portray themselves as more s*xually successful than they are, but it is always possible for someone to have had a normal/reasonable number of s*xual partners and not feel the need to lie about it. For a person that age, I'd actually say that 8 is a normal number of partners, particularly if they were sexually active prior to college. 8 partners over 20 years seems pretty normal.

Would also like to point out that while "body count" is absolutely the slang you're looking for here, it's a violent term usually applied to how many people a person or event has k*lled. Consider the implications of using that to describe number of s*xual partners. I personally think language like this contributes to the same culture that encourages everyone to lie about how many s*xual partners they've had.

Anonymous wrote:Not scum meant DCUM

No you meant what you 1st wrote. Freudian slip

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Anonymous wrote:Promiscuous people are at every age. We know a guy who is just awful. He has been in relationships with women but hides he is also Bi. He's into the swinger life-style. I feel sorry for the women he dates because they need check up on him beforehand, as they are putting their health at great risk. He's attractive as well. I know if I were single I would thoroughly check out that person before getting involved.

Do you know if he’s active or passive with men?

Active. I think he's the pitcher and catcher.

Pardon, does it mean he’s taking as well? Not sure I understand

He's a giver and receiver. Both sexes.

Hope he uses condoms and tests often..,

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Anonymous wrote:I am hot as hell. I don’t discuss my body count. If a lady asks, I tell her she doesn’t need to worry her pretty little head about it. We’re still gonna bang. If she wants me enough to ask, I know I am gonna be inside her soon.

Do you have herpes?

PP is gross. One of my relatives got Herpes. Of course, most don't tell because no one would have sex with them. My DH's nephew died of an aids related cancer. If I were dating and serious we would both get a clean bill of health. This is what stable people do, PP is not stable, or a troll lol.

I’m a woman and always ask for see the std panel . Many guys disappear after that. I presume it didn’t clear or they are sleeping around a lot and don’t want to take tests for me. Good enough reason to move on and don’t engage
If more women were using this approach in dating instead of hooking up, then men wouldn’t treat us like s…t

You are one of the few smart women I've seen. If you're willing to do a current one, they should too. When they refuse you know all you need to.

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Anonymous wrote:Promiscuous people are at every age. We know a guy who is just awful. He has been in relationships with women but hides he is also Bi. He's into the swinger life-style. I feel sorry for the women he dates because they need check up on him beforehand, as they are putting their health at great risk. He's attractive as well. I know if I were single I would thoroughly check out that person before getting involved.

Do you know if he’s active or passive with men?

Active. I think he's the pitcher and catcher.

Pardon, does it mean he’s taking as well? Not sure I understand

He's a giver and receiver. Both sexes.

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Anonymous wrote:I am hot as hell. I don’t discuss my body count. If a lady asks, I tell her she doesn’t need to worry her pretty little head about it. We’re still gonna bang. If she wants me enough to ask, I know I am gonna be inside her soon.

Do you have herpes?

PP is gross. One of my relatives got Herpes. Of course, most don't tell because no one would have sex with them. My DH's nephew died of an aids related cancer. If I were dating and serious we would both get a clean bill of health. This is what stable people do, PP is not stable, or a troll lol.

I’m a woman and always ask for see the std panel . Many guys disappear after that. I presume it didn’t clear or they are sleeping around a lot and don’t want to take tests for me. Good enough reason to move on and don’t engage
If more women were using this approach in dating instead of hooking up, then men wouldn’t treat us like s…t

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Anonymous wrote:I am hot as hell. I don’t discuss my body count. If a lady asks, I tell her she doesn’t need to worry her pretty little head about it. We’re still gonna bang. If she wants me enough to ask, I know I am gonna be inside her soon.

Do you have herpes?

PP is gross. One of my relatives got Herpes. Of course, most don't tell because no one would have sex with them. My DH's nephew died of an aids related cancer. If I were dating and serious we would both get a clean bill of health. This is what stable people do, PP is not stable, or a troll lol.

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Anonymous wrote:Promiscuous people are at every age. We know a guy who is just awful. He has been in relationships with women but hides he is also Bi. He's into the swinger life-style. I feel sorry for the women he dates because they need check up on him beforehand, as they are putting their health at great risk. He's attractive as well. I know if I were single I would thoroughly check out that person before getting involved.

Do you know if he’s active or passive with men?

Active. I think he's the pitcher and catcher.

Pardon, does it mean he’s taking as well? Not sure I understand

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Promiscuous people are at every age. We know a guy who is just awful. He has been in relationships with women but hides he is also Bi. He's into the swinger life-style. I feel sorry for the women he dates because they need check up on him beforehand, as they are putting their health at great risk. He's attractive as well. I know if I were single I would thoroughly check out that person before getting involved.

Do you know if he’s active or passive with men?

Active. I think he's the pitcher and catcher.

Anonymous wrote:I am hot as hell. I don’t discuss my body count. If a lady asks, I tell her she doesn’t need to worry her pretty little head about it. We’re still gonna bang. If she wants me enough to ask, I know I am gonna be inside her soon.

Do you have herpes?