Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 19:05     Subject: Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated

I’m few similarly. Also never cheated. OP that was selfish AF.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 18:54     Subject: Revealing affair
Good for you! Ignore the cheaters (or cheat apologists) who'd rather keep their dirty secrets hidden.

Have you gotten a response? How did you find out? Does your spouse know that you know/shared this?
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 18:54     Subject: Revealing affair
Good for you OP. Update us a s let us know if the spouse responds.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 18:27     Subject: Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated


The folks that cheated caused the trauma, not OP.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 18:19     Subject: Re:Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You sound just as selfish and self centered as the cheaters OP.


I fail to see the selfishness


Re-read the OP. Not even fake concern of “the other spouse deserved know the truth”, everything is “I” and “me”.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 17:14     Subject: Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I made an instagram account with their pictures.

Let’s all dance in the sun!
omg. of them together? lol. If this is really true that's pretty funny.


They're all G rated, no one would give them a second look, I will say the suggested follows are the most entertaining.
They're aware of the account so I blocked the affair partner so they won't be able to see updates or who follows the account. One picture in particular has 21 shares so it's making the rounds way behind their back, just like they went way behind mine.

FB and IG have this great new feature where the blocks go across IP addresses, networks, email confirmations and device IMEI so no matter how many accounts they make they can't see it.
Sorry.....I'm so not sorry!


The shares are because you’re airing dirty laundry and people love to spectate and bear witness to other people’s messes.


Uh yeah that’s the idea
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 17:12     Subject: Re:Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:Did the same.

I don’t GAF what happens to their family just like they don’t care what happened to my family.

They created this problem, not me.

A-holes don’t like to take responsibility for their actions. FAFO



PREACH!!!! ⭐️
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 17:07     Subject: Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I made an instagram account with their pictures.

Let’s all dance in the sun!
omg. of them together? lol. If this is really true that's pretty funny.


They're all G rated, no one would give them a second look, I will say the suggested follows are the most entertaining.
They're aware of the account so I blocked the affair partner so they won't be able to see updates or who follows the account. One picture in particular has 21 shares so it's making the rounds way behind their back, just like they went way behind mine.

FB and IG have this great new feature where the blocks go across IP addresses, networks, email confirmations and device IMEI so no matter how many accounts they make they can't see it.
Sorry.....I'm so not sorry!


The shares are because you’re airing dirty laundry and people love to spectate and bear witness to other people’s messes.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 17:05     Subject: Re:Revealing affair
Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated


Who cares if you cheated? You still have zero integrity. She was absolutely right to tell so that the other betrayed spouse has agency in their life. They can protect their health and have all the information when they are making big decisions that have family or financial implications. The only people that may have destroyed the children's lives are the cheaters. What kind of f/'ed up logic do you follow that blames the cheated on spouse for the family destruction? That's some serious mental gymnastics.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 16:58     Subject: Revealing affair
Good- you did the right thing.
All experienced marriage counselors will tell you the same.
EXPOSE THE TRUTH. DON'T LIVE IN LIES.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 16:58     Subject: Re:Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:You sound just as selfish and self centered as the cheaters OP.


I fail to see the selfishness
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 16:47     Subject: Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:
What other people missed is that an affair can expose the other spouse to STDs. For this reason alone it's important to divulge.

Whatever happens, happens. But I feel strongly that the more you know, the better you can decide your future.


Absolutely! I wish I had the AP spouse’s email. I am sure they would be shocked to know the spouse is bringing someone into their home for sex every time they are out of town, oh, and they have been exposed to a STD. They deserve to know!
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 16:39     Subject: Revealing affair

What other people missed is that an affair can expose the other spouse to STDs. For this reason alone it's important to divulge.

Whatever happens, happens. But I feel strongly that the more you know, the better you can decide your future.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 16:37     Subject: Re:Revealing affair
You sound just as selfish and self centered as the cheaters OP.
Anonymous
Post 11/20/2024 16:12     Subject: Revealing affair
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I made an instagram account with their pictures.

Let’s all dance in the sun!
omg. of them together? lol. If this is really true that's pretty funny.


They're all G rated, no one would give them a second look, I will say the suggested follows are the most entertaining.
They're aware of the account so I blocked the affair partner so they won't be able to see updates or who follows the account. One picture in particular has 21 shares so it's making the rounds way behind their back, just like they went way behind mine.

FB and IG have this great new feature where the blocks go across IP addresses, networks, email confirmations and device IMEI so no matter how many accounts they make they can't see it.
Sorry.....I'm so not sorry!