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Anonymous

11/29/2024 19:12 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would suspect he is cheating.

Well holy shit that came out of nowhere. Projection much?

Np, but cheating was my initial thought too. Angry overeactions from my ex were always tell tale signs of him actively cheating.

Anonymous

11/29/2024 10:58 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

My husband has done equally ridiculous things. He has high-functioning autism and ADHD and sometimes just can't act like a human being. It's been hard on our marriage. If you don't have kids, you need to get out, OP.

Anonymous

11/29/2024 10:56 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

People who have joint bills should pay those bills out of a joint account. DH and I don’t commingle all of our funds, but we do have a joint account for our home and child related bills.

Anonymous

11/29/2024 10:47 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

So he got OP to GIVE him $500 of free money from YOUR money and got his card paid. Nice gift.
He is short of money for some reason.
If you have joint cards, get him off them now.
His credit will tank and take you with him.
Talk to a lawyer.

Anonymous

11/29/2024 09:20 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

I think this cheapo is my ex

Anonymous

11/29/2024 09:18 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

For $500?
Ehhh

Anonymous

11/18/2024 01:01 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would suspect he is cheating.

Well holy shit that came out of nowhere. Projection much?

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It’s pretty common for cheaters to blow up over things that could expose them.

When my xH was cheating, he would freak out over his phone. Even when I finally did go on his phone and get proof, he blew up again saying invading his privacy and reading conversations not meant for me to see was the worse crime.

By blowing up he scares OP into not looking too hard at where his money is going. Or he needed that money to pay for dates with AP.

What PP describes in bold is a classic form of domestic abuse called "coercive control."

Anonymous

11/16/2024 08:48 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would suspect he is cheating.

Well holy shit that came out of nowhere. Projection much?

h

It’s pretty common for cheaters to blow up over things that could expose them.

When my xH was cheating, he would freak out over his phone. Even when I finally did go on his phone and get proof, he blew up again saying invading his privacy and reading conversations not meant for me to see was the worse crime.

By blowing up he scares OP into not looking too hard at where his money is going. Or he needed that money to pay for dates with AP.

Anonymous

11/16/2024 05:32 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would suspect he is cheating.

Well holy shit that came out of nowhere. Projection much?

Typical DCUM projection would be a ADHD diagnosis 😀

Anonymous

11/16/2024 05:20 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

Best $500 you ever spent. Leave him now

Anonymous

11/16/2024 03:46 Subject: Re:I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

Uh so your husband seriously just threatened to SUE you in a court of law…..??????

Yup, this one is actually very easy.

I would call a good divorce attorney.
First thing tomorrow morning. 😤🫤

Anonymous

11/16/2024 01:54 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

Take him off the cc account. Boom! Problem solved

Anonymous

11/16/2024 00:59 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

So you have a joint cc but not a joint bank account? That makes zero sense. Did one of you have terrible credit and the spouse with decent credit gave the bad credit spouse a card on the account. OP, Get yourself off that card immediately. If it was yours originally, close the account. And then start divorce proceedings. This is going nowhere good, fast.

Anonymous

11/16/2024 00:55 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

Guy here and you should leave your relationship asap. Nothing about this ok.

Anonymous

11/15/2024 23:52 Subject: I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account

He can afford a lawyer but not the $500? That sounds like total BS