Anonymous wrote:The idea that reading to your child will make your child a better reader is a myth. The only thing that will make your child a better reader is reading (and writing!)
It does not sound as though your child is reading books that are decodable. Did you start with decodable books? Decodable books are based in phonics and if you skip over the phonics, it will be much harder for your child to read fluently in the long term. You can memorize CAT but when you start to read words like Orinthologist, you need to have a good basis in phonics to sound it out.
You are swinging the pendulum too far in the other direction. While I 100% agree that kids need to be taught phonics in an organized and disciplined way (especially kids who don't take to reading easily), reading to your kids will absolutely make them better readers.
The key is to do both. You can't JUST read to your kid and hope he becomes a more fluent reader by osmosis. You need to make sure he's getting the foundations for reading either at school or at home and that he has plenty of opportunities to practice decoding and working his way up toward fluency in a graduated way.
But assuming you are doing that, here are some benefits of reading to your kid even after he has learned to read:
- You can read more difficult and exciting stories to him, which will help motivate him to enjoy and pursue reading because he will see how pleasurable it can be and get a glimpse at the many, many chapter books out there with wonderful stories for him to experience. You can also read books to him and then show him the movies based on the books -- this is how my kids learned that books are richer texts and often have details and events that get cut out from the movie. This is a great incentive for kids to actually read books instead of only watching the movies -- the books offer more.
- It will expose your child to a much larger vocabulary and also facilitate them learning how the phonics rules they are currently practicing apply to larger, more complex words. Encourage your kid to stop you and ask what a word means if they don't know (or you can proactively stop to ask if they understand words you are reading if you have a sense they might not). This can sometimes start conversations that unlock tools for decoding. Say you read a story that has the word "circulate" in it. If he doesn't know that word, you can ask "well does it sound like any words you do know?" And if he identifies circle then you can talk about how those words are related because circulate means to move around a close system (like a circle). You can then talk about the circulatory system. And then you can talk about how the latin root "circe" also shows up in a word like circus, because circuses traditionally take place in circular rings. Talking about etymology like this can demystify language for them and help them see how words are related and offer clues to their meanings.
- And by reading books to him and with him, and talking about the words and phrases in these books, you create a shared vocabulary that can become part of your relationship and communication. This will encourage him to use the words he's learning from the books you read in conversation with you, which translates to using them in writing as he develops in that area as well. This will increase fluency in spoken and written language as well as reading, all of which actually work together to build broad literacy.
No one should be substituting reading to kids in place of solid phonics instruction and offering level-appropriate decodable texts. But doing away with that approach does NOT mean that reading to kids has no utility when it comes to literacy. It is really important and kids who get phonics instruction and practice decoding on their own but are not read to regularly are getting a limited (and limiting) literary education. They also may have less interest in books and stories and less motivation to pursue reading outside what is required in school.