Anonymous wrote:While average men don't seem to have nearly as many experiences with their dream girls. For example, a woman in this article lays out how she spent a year only dating men with her superficial dream qualities.

"After a long, toxic relationship with a guy who was a total waste of my time, I decided to have some fun with dating and only go out with dudes who had my dream guy qualities. For an entire year, I only dated guys who were over six feet tall, and while I felt kind of silly a lot of the time, it was also kinda fun."

One reason….wait for it……women have vaginas. That’s it. Next question.

https://www.bolde.com/spent-year-dating-guys-six-feet-heres-like/

I hear this type of thing in real life too. I've heard plenty of women talk about their dating experiences with very handsome men, very tall men, very wealthy men, professional athletes, entertainers or maybe even local celebrities. I never hear average guys talk about the hot woman they went out with over the weekend - presumably because they did not go out with one over the weekend.

Why don't men seem to have dealings with their "dream" women nearly as frequently as women have dealings with their dream men?

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Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

The journalist in the OP only said she dated guys who are over six feet tall. She didn’t say they had to be smart or make over $250k/yr.


I think a lot of women in their twenties would say that’s three separate great guys. I think I dated those guys.
- The tall, handsome guy. Mine was a marine.
- The super smart guy. Mine was an Italian physicist.
- The guy who makes a lot of money. Mine was an engineer/MBA who had his own company.

I don’t think any of these men had 6 other women on the side. (Well, the marine might have.) They probably weren’t even necessarily that great. I just romanticized them.
I think if you are going to date a lot of “dream girls” as an average guy, you need to try to become someone who is a little less cynical and sees the best in people. And then put yourself out there.

In what world is a tall, handsome guy not "that great"? You are proving the OP's point here. Most men don't have a story about dating a beautiful, stacked blonde.

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Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

The journalist in the OP only said she dated guys who are over six feet tall. She didn’t say they had to be smart or make over $250k/yr.


I think a lot of women in their twenties would say that’s three separate great guys. I think I dated those guys.
- The tall, handsome guy. Mine was a marine.
- The super smart guy. Mine was an Italian physicist.
- The guy who makes a lot of money. Mine was an engineer/MBA who had his own company.

I don’t think any of these men had 6 other women on the side. (Well, the marine might have.) They probably weren’t even necessarily that great. I just romanticized them.
I think if you are going to date a lot of “dream girls” as an average guy, you need to try to become someone who is a little less cynical and sees the best in people. And then put yourself out there.

In what world is a tall, handsome guy not "that great"? You are proving the OP's point here. Most men don't have a story about dating a beautiful, stacked blonde.

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Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

The journalist in the OP only said she dated guys who are over six feet tall. She didn’t say they had to be smart or make over $250k/yr.


I think a lot of women in their twenties would say that’s three separate great guys. I think I dated those guys.
- The tall, handsome guy. Mine was a marine.
- The super smart guy. Mine was an Italian physicist.
- The guy who makes a lot of money. Mine was an engineer/MBA who had his own company.

I don’t think any of these men had 6 other women on the side. (Well, the marine might have.) They probably weren’t even necessarily that great. I just romanticized them.
I think if you are going to date a lot of “dream girls” as an average guy, you need to try to become someone who is a little less cynical and sees the best in people. And then put yourself out there.

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Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

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Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

Anonymous wrote:The top tier men are going through a new woman every week or two, so that's why a lot of women get to experience them.

Probably not the same for top tier women.

Anonymous wrote:The top tier men are going through a new woman every week or two, so that's why a lot of women get to experience them.

Probably not the same for top tier women.

Anonymous wrote:Let’s define “top tier” woman. This would be someone like Taylor Swift, Rachel Hilbert, etc.

“Top tier” women do not go out with average men. They just do not. They have so many choices with men and men approaching them constantly giving them gifts, trips, etc. If the man does not have status- famous, wealthy, power, etc, he will not be in the same circles as a “top tier” woman. He just will not break through her entourage/circle.

A “top tier” man will go out with any woman he is physically attracted to regardless of her status.