Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just to clarify. My son was admitted in November of last year and for his deposit in and what we thought was an early slot to choose. His choices were a dorm not close to campus that previously was private apartments that the school took over.
I am just trying to be honest here. We love the school. If you aren’t admitted until spring you will have issues. Best thing to do is stay a single because singles do open up as people decline.
The OP asked for the cons too. This is one. But no reason not to go. The stats are the stats. Many freshman were not able to get on campus
We went on a tour at Auburn and they told us to submit the housing deposit with the application. You don't have to be admitted to do so, and it wasn't a huge amount of money (I forget how much). Got the same advice at Texas, FWIW.
This is false. You have to be admitted. You don’t have to have accepted though.
Can you imagine the ridiculous inefficiency of everyone who applied could enter the lottery system.
U less things changed this year. You get admitted. You get a slot to submit an application. In spring you get a slot to go in and choose a dorm.
Anonymous wrote:Strongly suggest sending in housing deposit now. It’s not a huge amount. Even if you are not certain he will attend. Think of it as an insurance policy.
Off campus housing is terrific, and close. Sophomore year and beyond. But a freshman should be on campus. Get that deposit in.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just to clarify. My son was admitted in November of last year and for his deposit in and what we thought was an early slot to choose. His choices were a dorm not close to campus that previously was private apartments that the school took over.
I am just trying to be honest here. We love the school. If you aren’t admitted until spring you will have issues. Best thing to do is stay a single because singles do open up as people decline.
The OP asked for the cons too. This is one. But no reason not to go. The stats are the stats. Many freshman were not able to get on campus
We went on a tour at Auburn and they told us to submit the housing deposit with the application. You don't have to be admitted to do so, and it wasn't a huge amount of money (I forget how much). Got the same advice at Texas, FWIW.
This is false. You have to be admitted. You don’t have to have accepted though.
Can you imagine the ridiculous inefficiency of everyone who applied could enter the lottery system.
U less things changed this year. You get admitted. You get a slot to submit an application. In spring you get a slot to go in and choose a dorm.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just to clarify. My son was admitted in November of last year and for his deposit in and what we thought was an early slot to choose. His choices were a dorm not close to campus that previously was private apartments that the school took over.
I am just trying to be honest here. We love the school. If you aren’t admitted until spring you will have issues. Best thing to do is stay a single because singles do open up as people decline.
The OP asked for the cons too. This is one. But no reason not to go. The stats are the stats. Many freshman were not able to get on campus
We went on a tour at Auburn and they told us to submit the housing deposit with the application. You don't have to be admitted to do so, and it wasn't a huge amount of money (I forget how much). Got the same advice at Texas, FWIW.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:(California mom who posted above.)
My daughter really enjoyed her (second choice) sorority (decided to love the house that loved her back) and said rush was not meaningfully different than any other competitive school. There are always some who are disappointed, I get that. Periods of institutional growth can be challenging.
She was very committed freshman/sophomore years. Then her circle grew with her new professional interest and Greek life became more of a pleasant side group. That happens, especially as they mature into adults, and what they value in relationships grows.
I can’t imagine choosing one school over another based on the rush process alone. Auburn has a really robust Greek scene. It also has a huge bar scene. Lots of apartment parties. Pool parties. Plenty of clubs and interest groups. Mine was not a big drinker and loved playing volleyball and run club. I point this out because we are not a “Southern” family and our daughter felt there were myriad paths socially, for all sorts of people. Greek life was just one of them.
You can’t imagine it because you live in California. UMC southern moms prep their girls for years to include getting them to network in high school to help get certain houses. It’s very important to them and continues to be important to them as adults. Southern culture is all about belonging to groups.
There are definitely rush Moms and daughters that fit the stereotype at most Southern schools. However, knowing several legacies who rushed at Auburn (as well as other schools) and having a kid at another southern school that is known for its Greek system, it's not as important as the people who care (and those that want to make it sound like an exclusionary system) try to make it out to be. My kid chose not to rush, and is having a wonderful college experience and has a very happy social life. FWIW, I was in a sorority, and enjoyed it, but I wholeheartedly supported my DC's decision to not rush. It wouldn't have been a good fit for them (wouldn't have put up with people telling them what to do).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:(California mom who posted above.)
My daughter really enjoyed her (second choice) sorority (decided to love the house that loved her back) and said rush was not meaningfully different than any other competitive school. There are always some who are disappointed, I get that. Periods of institutional growth can be challenging.
She was very committed freshman/sophomore years. Then her circle grew with her new professional interest and Greek life became more of a pleasant side group. That happens, especially as they mature into adults, and what they value in relationships grows.
I can’t imagine choosing one school over another based on the rush process alone. Auburn has a really robust Greek scene. It also has a huge bar scene. Lots of apartment parties. Pool parties. Plenty of clubs and interest groups. Mine was not a big drinker and loved playing volleyball and run club. I point this out because we are not a “Southern” family and our daughter felt there were myriad paths socially, for all sorts of people. Greek life was just one of them.
You can’t imagine it because you live in California. UMC southern moms prep their girls for years to include getting them to network in high school to help get certain houses. It’s very important to them and continues to be important to them as adults. Southern culture is all about belonging to groups.
Anonymous wrote:Just to clarify. My son was admitted in November of last year and for his deposit in and what we thought was an early slot to choose. His choices were a dorm not close to campus that previously was private apartments that the school took over.
I am just trying to be honest here. We love the school. If you aren’t admitted until spring you will have issues. Best thing to do is stay a single because singles do open up as people decline.
The OP asked for the cons too. This is one. But no reason not to go. The stats are the stats. Many freshman were not able to get on campus