Anonymous wrote:I have a mix of 2b/2c waves with some 3a curls mixed in. I love it. Many would consider it "difficult", but IDGAF - it's a bit messy, a bit wild, and suits me perfectly.

I have the same hair and I can't get over how difficult it is (it's really not that bad, but I am fundamentally lazy when it comes to beauty). I would love to get to the point you're at! Any tips?

I have a mix of 2b/2c waves with some 3a curls mixed in. I love it. Many would consider it "difficult", but IDGAF - it's a bit messy, a bit wild, and suits me perfectly.

Anonymous wrote:I liked my hair before perimenopause. As is typical, it is thinner and more wiry now. The only good thing is that the wave shows more.

Asian here. During perimenopause, my formerly straight, thick-stranded hair became thinner (strands became thinner), more frizzy and developed uneven waves. Now post-menopause, I have added many layers and stye by spritzing in leave-in conditioner and a little bit of curling cream, scrunch and air dry. It brings out the waves and controls the frizz.