Anonymous
Post 10/17/2024 08:21     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
A good looking older man who’s taken care of himself? I’d be into it!
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 16:31     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:Both men and women can age well if they care of themselves, but most don't. And alcohol is a big culprit more than lack of physical activity. So if you hey hit on from an ATTRACTIVE older man that's a compliment.

I am 47 and I am divorced but not dating. I take really good care of myself and I have an engaging personality . I didn't know there were so many single (divorced or never married) women. I do flirt with them sometimes but I just stop there. I have teenage twins 14 years old extremely difficult to handle. They are going through their phase and I have my hand full. But maybe once they get out of that phase I'll be mentally ready to devote sometime to someone.

You are a great dad! Your girls are lucky to have you.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 16:17     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Old men are dogs


No,
Old men know how treat a woman and they are not selfish in bed like young men.


Come on. Not universally true.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 14:41     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:Old men are dogs


No,
Old men know how treat a woman and they are not selfish in bed like young men.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 22:20     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
I'm around 60. Women 30-45 do not usually want me, but some are super attracted to me. This is much more common among women born overseas. I'm talking about lawyers, doctors, professors, etc., not gold diggers, mail order brides or sugar babies. I try to take my flirtation cues from the women. Hitting on a younger woman who obviously isn't interested is dumb. Hitting in a younger woman who's making lots of eye contact can lead to very good experiences.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 22:11     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In my early 40s I seem to exclusively attract men 55-60+. Rarely men my own age even though I am often mistaken for being in my 30s.


Why do all women in their 40s say that lol?


Because that's what people tell me all the time, even people that are younger. Am I to assume they're lying? I'm a woman of color who is fit and takes care of herself. It's not that far fetched to believe is it?
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 21:30     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have a thing for older men.
Love attention from them!


Do you put out?


Yes. For the men I am attracted to.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 21:22     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My 65 years old married a 34 years old woman 2 years ago shortly after divorcing my mom. And she is very successful herself. We are all cluelessly as to what she found so attractive in him.


It might be fun to have young stepmother.


I was the only one out of 4 siblings to attend my dad's wedding. She is only 3 years older than me, but she to be honest she looks like she is in her 40s.


I noticed a long time ago that women who marry much older men are often "early grannies" type
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 21:06     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My 65 years old married a 34 years old woman 2 years ago shortly after divorcing my mom. And she is very successful herself. We are all cluelessly as to what she found so attractive in him.


It might be fun to have young stepmother.


I was the only one out of 4 siblings to attend my dad's wedding. She is only 3 years older than me, but she to be honest she looks like she is in her 40s.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 20:51     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:I have a thing for older men.
Love attention from them!


Do you put out?
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 20:46     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:My 65 years old married a 34 years old woman 2 years ago shortly after divorcing my mom. And she is very successful herself. We are all cluelessly as to what she found so attractive in him.


It might be fun to have young stepmother.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 19:54     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
My 65 years old married a 34 years old woman 2 years ago shortly after divorcing my mom. And she is very successful herself. We are all cluelessly as to what she found so attractive in him.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 19:52     Subject: Re:Being noticed by older men?
Anonymous wrote:I'm 36 and when i get noticed by much older men they are very nice and complimentary and I'm sure they have a daughter my age as I often find out in conversation. It's the guys 15-20 years older who are the issue who quickly want to talk about their success and other ego things. Once they realize I'm married to a guy likely far more successful than them they seem to wither.


Weird. Men are not known to either because the woman they are hitting on is married to a guy more successful than them.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 19:34     Subject: Being noticed by older men?
Old men are dogs
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 19:28     Subject: Re:Being noticed by older men?
I'm 36 and when i get noticed by much older men they are very nice and complimentary and I'm sure they have a daughter my age as I often find out in conversation. It's the guys 15-20 years older who are the issue who quickly want to talk about their success and other ego things. Once they realize I'm married to a guy likely far more successful than them they seem to wither.