Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 09:55     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yes, I think my kids' coaches know the rules. Umps are stubborn though, and once they make a call, they will not go back on it. Cost us a tournament game this weekend too.


My guess is the umpires were right and the coaches were wrong. In a tournament, they could have paid a protest fee if it was a rules-based challenge. The fact that they didn't do that tells me they probably aren't as confident in knowing the rules as you believe.



And depending on the sport, there are tournament directors and head umpires that are hanging out between the fields. You can call them in for a rule clarification (but obviously not for judgement calls, likes balls & strikes)
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 09:46     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I think my kids' coaches know the rules. Umps are stubborn though, and once they make a call, they will not go back on it. Cost us a tournament game this weekend too.


My guess is the umpires were right and the coaches were wrong. In a tournament, they could have paid a protest fee if it was a rules-based challenge. The fact that they didn't do that tells me they probably aren't as confident in knowing the rules as you believe.

Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 09:44     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I think my kids' coaches know the rules. Umps are stubborn though, and once they make a call, they will not go back on it. Cost us a tournament game this weekend too.


Was it a judgement call or literally not knowing the rules.

Bc I get your frustration if they didn't know the rule. But if was something like calling a runner safe when, in your opinion, the throw beat the runner, well, the ump really can't flip flop calls like that.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 09:43     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Yes, I think my kids' coaches know the rules. Umps are stubborn though, and once they make a call, they will not go back on it. Cost us a tournament game this weekend too.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 09:42     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


The angriest that I've ever seen my DD's coach is when the ref wouldn't stop play after two player collided going for a header. It's the only time I ever saw him go after a ref


Why should a referee stop play in that case? Were there obvious injuries? I assume collisions are commonplace when competing for headers?

In softball, I'll only kill a play when there's a obvious medical emergency type injury -- like a pitcher takes a line drive to the face and a nose explodes in blood or something (yes, I've seen it happen -- which is why I'm a big proponent of fielders' masks). But the run-of-the-mill girl takes a hard grounder off her shin, I'll allow time when the play is over but I'm not killing a play prematurely.


When kids collide heads and are on the ground? Any league sanctioned by us soccer is supposed to stop play for possible head injuries
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2024 09:24     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


The angriest that I've ever seen my DD's coach is when the ref wouldn't stop play after two player collided going for a header. It's the only time I ever saw him go after a ref


Why should a referee stop play in that case? Were there obvious injuries? I assume collisions are commonplace when competing for headers?

In softball, I'll only kill a play when there's a obvious medical emergency type injury -- like a pitcher takes a line drive to the face and a nose explodes in blood or something (yes, I've seen it happen -- which is why I'm a big proponent of fielders' masks). But the run-of-the-mill girl takes a hard grounder off her shin, I'll allow time when the play is over but I'm not killing a play prematurely.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 16:13     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


The angriest that I've ever seen my DD's coach is when the ref wouldn't stop play after two player collided going for a header. It's the only time I ever saw him go after a ref



I saw a coach screaming at a ref to stop play so a kid could tie their shoe. I just shook my head in disbelief. I wasn’t sure if the coach didn’t know the rules or he hoped the ref didn’t know the rules.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 15:36     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


True, especially in sports where the calls include real judgement and not just a black/white application of the rules. Soccer and basketball in particular have a a lot of "grey" in the level of physicality that can happen in a game. Sometimes refs call the game tight, other times they call it loose. Parents usually want it whatever way is best for their team.


Parents aren't ON the team. THAT is the problem.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 11:19     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


True, especially in sports where the calls include real judgement and not just a black/white application of the rules. Soccer and basketball in particular have a a lot of "grey" in the level of physicality that can happen in a game. Sometimes refs call the game tight, other times they call it loose. Parents usually want it whatever way is best for their team.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 10:18     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


I pulled my daughter from soccer, the reffing and coaching is a liability blanket statement. The coaches are quick to teach aggressive behavior, but never call fouls in practice. That is the real frustrating thing about coaches that don't know the rules, is they don't call them in practices so kids don't learn them by game time. It also causes the kids to learn defensive play. In basketball the coach ever called over the back or reaching in the post. My daughter just quit trying to catch the ball. Same with soccer, saw many a goalie's hands get kicked in practice. No call. That stuff should be a practice red card. Like, go home kid we don't want to play with you, ever!


You don't call it in practice because you want kids to play aggressive and most youth refs will not call over the back. The last thing a coach wants is kids busy calling fouls while the play goes on with out them


My point was that it didn't actually increase aggressive behavior. It increased defensive behavior. The goalie isn't going to dive on the ground to go after the ball when they just got their hand kicked.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 10:12     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


I pulled my daughter from soccer, the reffing and coaching is a liability blanket statement. The coaches are quick to teach aggressive behavior, but never call fouls in practice. That is the real frustrating thing about coaches that don't know the rules, is they don't call them in practices so kids don't learn them by game time. It also causes the kids to learn defensive play. In basketball the coach ever called over the back or reaching in the post. My daughter just quit trying to catch the ball. Same with soccer, saw many a goalie's hands get kicked in practice. No call. That stuff should be a practice red card. Like, go home kid we don't want to play with you, ever!


You don't call it in practice because you want kids to play aggressive and most youth refs will not call over the back. The last thing a coach wants is kids busy calling fouls while the play goes on with out them
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 10:09     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


The angriest that I've ever seen my DD's coach is when the ref wouldn't stop play after two player collided going for a header. It's the only time I ever saw him go after a ref
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 10:07     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.


I pulled my daughter from soccer, the reffing and coaching is a liability blanket statement. The coaches are quick to teach aggressive behavior, but never call fouls in practice. That is the real frustrating thing about coaches that don't know the rules, is they don't call them in practices so kids don't learn them by game time. It also causes the kids to learn defensive play. In basketball the coach ever called over the back or reaching in the post. My daughter just quit trying to catch the ball. Same with soccer, saw many a goalie's hands get kicked in practice. No call. That stuff should be a practice red card. Like, go home kid we don't want to play with you, ever!
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 10:01     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Don't know about baseball, but I have noticed in basketball I and many of the coaches don't quite understand all of the nuances of the rules, probably most of the referees don't either. I tried to teach my daughter the Euro step, a couple of coaches have called it a travel already. I had to find videos explaining the gather step.

I also recall as a player having limited understanding of the rules on occasion when I was called on to handle the ball. The thing is kids get put in positions, I played post, the nuances of reaching in and hand checking, dribbling the ball for five seconds etc. just aren't relevant. I needed to understand over the back, lane violations and going clean blocks etc.

It would be nice if some of the AAU travel teams had some training on that.


So do most youth refs


I agree, I was going to follow up that youth refs don't do themselves much help. Often times they are younger or inexperienced, other times they have a "let them play" attitude.

I ran into a particularly frustrating situation, where my daughter's coach noticed, the refs weren't calling reaching in (in this league they were supposed to be high school refs). The coach's response was rather than teach the kids correct technique, was to encourage the kids to hack like you wouldn't believe.

That was the refs in the league fault for not setting the tone early at least sufficiently to clarify what the rules are.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 10:00     Subject: Do you think your kids' travel sports coach knows the rules?

I sense many coaches don’t understand the rules, especially when it is nuanced. For example, in soccer there are very specific rules on how refs should deal with injured players. Most coaches, parents, and players don’t understand these rules and they end up screaming at refs as a result.