Anonymous wrote:Is the trans?

Is she trans?

Is the trans?

Why on earth would you ever push a dress on a child who doesn't want it? Disgusting. Let her wear what she is comfortable in.

Absolutely I would!

Anonymous wrote:Yes, it's trendy at my kids school and the girls look nice and confident in the suits

Agree.

They are adults; let them make their own decisions.

Anonymous wrote:I agree kids should be comfortable in their own skin. Men’s suit on female body today connotes non-binary/trans, not Lauren Bacall. So I wonder if this question means something more, and wearing the suit is a big step (different from a girls wear dressy pants and a sequined top because she doesn’t like dresses).

This is your baggage. Maybe based in where you live? If you are live in an unsafe place, by all means guard your girl by sending her to the dance in a dress. The frillier the better, lest someone think they look too masculine.

I agree kids should be comfortable in their own skin. Men’s suit on female body today connotes non-binary/trans, not Lauren Bacall. So I wonder if this question means something more, and wearing the suit is a big step (different from a girls wear dressy pants and a sequined top because she doesn’t like dresses).

Anonymous wrote:I don't SEND my HS child in anything. What is wrong with you?

+1

Seriously, op. Your job as a parent is to develop an independent person not dress a doll to send places.

Of course. It’s her dance.

What's the issue did you already purchase a dress she wanted and now she has changed her mind and you're out of the money?

Even if that was the case I still wouldn't insist on the dress I may make her pay for part of the suit or payback for the dress.

Yes, it's trendy at my kids school and the girls look nice and confident in the suits

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she wants a suit, she gets a suit. Honestly this is one of the better thing about kids today than my Gen X cohort.

+1
I also love the trend of girls wearing sneakers with dresses

Is this still a trend? I'm seeing less of it.

Anonymous wrote:If she wants a suit, she gets a suit. Honestly this is one of the better thing about kids today than my Gen X cohort.

If they want a suit, they get a suit.

Anonymous wrote:If she wants a suit, she gets a suit. Honestly this is one of the better thing about kids today than my Gen X cohort.

+1
I also love the trend of girls wearing sneakers with dresses

Anonymous wrote:Is she gay/bi?

I admit I would not like my DD wearing a suit. If she had a different sexual orientation, I would accept her.

Clothes don't equal sexual orientation.
You're so provincial

Lauren Bacall must have been one smokin' lesbian. Someone should have told Bogie.