I’m sure my husband has never said I’m sexy but he has many other ways of showing his attraction to me even if just a certain look. I think he’s sexy but his actions can really turn me on. This morning he took our three children to church and then out for breakfast so I can relax in total peace for a couple of hours. I’m already thinking about late tonight.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been married. That’s very sweet actually. I’m assuming he meant it in a nice way.

16 years. We have sex all the time. He assumes I am trying to be sexy and turn him on but I am not. I am just being myself.

ahh. You can't help it. You're drawn that way.

Does it bother you, or do you feel like it diminishes your other qualities ex: intelligence, kindness, compassion? If not, don’t overthink it because you’ll lose that energy if it’s front of mind. Then you’ll be awkwardly sexy.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been married. That’s very sweet actually. I’m assuming he meant it in a nice way.

16 years. We have sex all the time. He assumes I am trying to be sexy and turn him on but I am not. I am just being myself.

Sounds like he is pressuring you for even more sex.

99% of the women reading this thread are wishing their husbands said this about them (myself included).

No need to really understand now, his feelings about you will change, don’t worry

Anonymous wrote:OP, is English your first language? Because I'm wondering how you don't understand.

This.

Sexy, but either an idiot or in need of lots of attention from strangers on DCUM.

Anonymous wrote:Blatant humble brag, but I approve

There was nothing humble about it.

It a VBA tho

I feel this way about my wife everyday, married 15 years. It was the first thing I noticed about her the first time I saw her.

I think he is saying this because he wants more sex. My DH says the same thing to me all the time and we’ve had many conversations about this. He doesn’t feel he gets enough and wants me to initiate more and he thinks by telling me I am so sexy in all that I do that’s going to make me desire him more. Just telling me I’m so sexy doesn’t do it for me though. For me, it’s a lack of caring in the little things and day to day that turn me off sex wise. If he’s kind, helps with the house and kids and tidies up after himself then I feel attracted to him. He will do this for a little while but then goes right back to his ways where I’m doing everything in the house, exhausted and then expects me to be so interested and aroused. We have sex a few time a week but I feel like if he was a better partner I would be more into him. Both of us work but all he does is work and rarely pitches in w the kids and responsibilities. I’m always the one planning for the kids and us, taking care of bills, even fixing things around the house. I have to constantly beg for a lightbulb to be changed. So these things contribute to my feeling angry and resentful when I should instead feel attracted to him. Just my 2 cents.

He likes you! Like - he like likes you.

You're better off not talking to him about it or thinking about it. Just keep being you, enjoy his attention, and forget about this.

Why don't you ask him?

Okay. Congratulations, I guess?