Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile the smart parents are hoping their kids are as disruptive as possible, especially to admins not teachers, so the school admin prefers to refer the kid to a public-paid nonpublic school.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you need to email and document to the principal every day that the class is interrupted and for how long and in what way so they can justify getting more aides in there and all of the students can hopefully be more successful and sowe don’t lose another teacher (which we reallycan’t afford to lose.)
DP. That’s good advice. It’s unfair for the neurotypical to get neglected.
Gifted kids get neglected because kids who are at grade level need more help, more instruction, more practice, a slower pace. Public schools are supposed to help as many students as possible attain a minimum level of proficiency. Their goal is not, and cannot be, to help every student reach their own individual full potential. There’s nothing wrong with OP advocating for a better fit for her child, but public schools are legally required to teach special ed students in the least restrictive environment, which means there will be inclusion classes, and any gen ed student can be placed in them.
This. I understood OP to be more concerned about the behavior issues affecting the teacher and her child (versus OP being being upset because their child is in a class with other students who have IEPs), so I’m not understanding the hate directed at OP.
I am a teacher and unfortunately spend 80% of my time working with the 6-8 students in my class that have severe behavioral needs (and out of the 6-8 mentioned above, 5 of those also have significant academic needs as well, along with 2-3 students that need significant academic support but behavior is not a issue). IT IS DRAINING. I love teaching but come home every night exhausted. I’ve developed high blood pressure along with other health concerns and am only 45. I have nothing left to give my kids. I think this will be my last year teaching (as much as I love it and can’t imagine doing anything else). I feel like a babysitter who has been stripped of all creativity and authority, and honestly my heart breaks that I am not able to better serve the neurotypical students in my class. There’s just not enough time.
It also doesn’t help that MCPS was dinged by MSDE for having too many SpEd students pulled out vs in General Ed classes (LRE). I’m not sure what the solution is but the number of students with IEP’s and 504’s seems to have tripled without the funding to support the needs of the students. The students need more support, the teachers need more support and the parents need more support.
Anonymous wrote:It’s also amazing to me that so many public school parents are completely ignorant about basic special education laws like requirements for neurodiverse students to be placed in the least restrictive environment (ie OP’s daughters general education class)
They basically just find out about these laws the hard way; when Amelia’s classmates have ASD, emotional disabilities, and exhibit disruptive behaviors.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you need to email and document to the principal every day that the class is interrupted and for how long and in what way so they can justify getting more aides in there and all of the students can hopefully be more successful and sowe don’t lose another teacher (which we reallycan’t afford to lose.)
DP. That’s good advice. It’s unfair for the neurotypical to get neglected.
Gifted kids get neglected because kids who are at grade level need more help, more instruction, more practice, a slower pace. Public schools are supposed to help as many students as possible attain a minimum level of proficiency. Their goal is not, and cannot be, to help every student reach their own individual full potential. There’s nothing wrong with OP advocating for a better fit for her child, but public schools are legally required to teach special ed students in the least restrictive environment, which means there will be inclusion classes, and any gen ed student can be placed in them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you need to email and document to the principal every day that the class is interrupted and for how long and in what way so they can justify getting more aides in there and all of the students can hopefully be more successful and sowe don’t lose another teacher (which we reallycan’t afford to lose.)
DP. That’s good advice. It’s unfair for the neurotypical to get neglected.
Gifted kids get neglected because kids who are at grade level need more help, more instruction, more practice, a slower pace. Public schools are supposed to help as many students as possible attain a minimum level of proficiency. Their goal is not, and cannot be, to help every student reach their own individual full potential. There’s nothing wrong with OP advocating for a better fit for her child, but public schools are legally required to teach special ed students in the least restrictive environment, which means there will be inclusion classes, and any gen ed student can be placed in them.
Anonymous wrote:But, why are the teacher and her aid spending most of the period supporting, corralling, reporting issues about five or six students with learning or behavioral disabilities?
Shouldn't they divide their time equitably?
Anonymous wrote:It’s also amazing to me that so many public school parents are completely ignorant about basic special education laws like requirements for neurodiverse students to be placed in the least restrictive environment (ie OP’s daughters general education class)
They basically just find out about these laws the hard way; when Amelia’s classmates have ASD, emotional disabilities, and exhibit disruptive behaviors.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you need to email and document to the principal every day that the class is interrupted and for how long and in what way so they can justify getting more aides in there and all of the students can hopefully be more successful and sowe don’t lose another teacher (which we reallycan’t afford to lose.)
DP. That’s good advice. It’s unfair for the neurotypical to get neglected.