Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our liberal take is let it run out until it’s socially intolerable for your kid or there’s nothing they can learn at their school.
If we wanted segregation or higher rigor those things go together and are available to us but we choose not to take them until nothing is working.
This has served us through high school. We sympathize with those who have changed schools and ache for those who are going to have kids become underprepared adults.
Curious what kinds of schools you've sent your kids to.
We are at a Title 1 on the east side that has an ok middle school and terrible high school feed. We do not want segregation but we are getting it anyway just not in the way we expected -- if we stay then next year our older kid will be one of 3 non-black kids in the grade. We love the teachers and have found great families at the school and feel the academics are actually really solid even if the school itself has low test scores overall (we've found there is a cohort of kids on or above grade level in every class and the teachers so far have done a *great* job meeting these kids needs -- we really do not wind up having to supplement much at all though I feel that shifting for our older kid).
We feel like it's past time for us to move but got very unlucky in the lottery this past year so we're giving it another year. But what we're finding is that all our alternative options actually involve more integrated schools at least racially -- all the charters and other DCPS schools (and suburban schools if we wind up having to move) have very diverse racial demographics and still have substantial at-risk percentages though nowhere near as high as we have at our current school. I feel like if we stay we will wind up in a super segregated school population but just as super outliers.
Here's what I did:
Try both kids each year for ITDS. Failing that, try at Latin for 5th, both locations. Failing that, try for 6th at DCI and Stuart-Hobson. Then either stay put through 8th and apply to Walls and Banneker, or stay at Latin, or move to Jackson-Reed or Montgomery County somewhere. For you it might be different depending on age of child and where you live/commute, and what kind of school you like (BASIS? Sojourner Truth?). Anyway, try to make a little flowchart of options you would genuinely be at peace with. We can help you do it, if you say what schools you like.
DP. Have a similar plan with slightly different schools (looks like mostly a geography thing). Only thing I can't really come to terms with is what happens if we luck out at middle school? Do we move IB for a middle school option that works, still within the general vicinity of where we live/work/have community, or do we move somewhere with a high school path but less desirable commute and neighborhood/start over with relationships? Obviously I don't want to be in a position where we're moving for middle school and then again for high school (especially factoring in the impact on a younger sibling), but I also don't want to spend extra years living somewhere that is otherwise not great for our family unless we really have to.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our liberal take is let it run out until it’s socially intolerable for your kid or there’s nothing they can learn at their school.
If we wanted segregation or higher rigor those things go together and are available to us but we choose not to take them until nothing is working.
This has served us through high school. We sympathize with those who have changed schools and ache for those who are going to have kids become underprepared adults.
Curious what kinds of schools you've sent your kids to.
We are at a Title 1 on the east side that has an ok middle school and terrible high school feed. We do not want segregation but we are getting it anyway just not in the way we expected -- if we stay then next year our older kid will be one of 3 non-black kids in the grade. We love the teachers and have found great families at the school and feel the academics are actually really solid even if the school itself has low test scores overall (we've found there is a cohort of kids on or above grade level in every class and the teachers so far have done a *great* job meeting these kids needs -- we really do not wind up having to supplement much at all though I feel that shifting for our older kid).
We feel like it's past time for us to move but got very unlucky in the lottery this past year so we're giving it another year. But what we're finding is that all our alternative options actually involve more integrated schools at least racially -- all the charters and other DCPS schools (and suburban schools if we wind up having to move) have very diverse racial demographics and still have substantial at-risk percentages though nowhere near as high as we have at our current school. I feel like if we stay we will wind up in a super segregated school population but just as super outliers.
Here's what I did:
Try both kids each year for ITDS. Failing that, try at Latin for 5th, both locations. Failing that, try for 6th at DCI and Stuart-Hobson. Then either stay put through 8th and apply to Walls and Banneker, or stay at Latin, or move to Jackson-Reed or Montgomery County somewhere. For you it might be different depending on age of child and where you live/commute, and what kind of school you like (BASIS? Sojourner Truth?). Anyway, try to make a little flowchart of options you would genuinely be at peace with. We can help you do it, if you say what schools you like.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our liberal take is let it run out until it’s socially intolerable for your kid or there’s nothing they can learn at their school.
If we wanted segregation or higher rigor those things go together and are available to us but we choose not to take them until nothing is working.
This has served us through high school. We sympathize with those who have changed schools and ache for those who are going to have kids become underprepared adults.
Curious what kinds of schools you've sent your kids to.
We are at a Title 1 on the east side that has an ok middle school and terrible high school feed. We do not want segregation but we are getting it anyway just not in the way we expected -- if we stay then next year our older kid will be one of 3 non-black kids in the grade. We love the teachers and have found great families at the school and feel the academics are actually really solid even if the school itself has low test scores overall (we've found there is a cohort of kids on or above grade level in every class and the teachers so far have done a *great* job meeting these kids needs -- we really do not wind up having to supplement much at all though I feel that shifting for our older kid).
We feel like it's past time for us to move but got very unlucky in the lottery this past year so we're giving it another year. But what we're finding is that all our alternative options actually involve more integrated schools at least racially -- all the charters and other DCPS schools (and suburban schools if we wind up having to move) have very diverse racial demographics and still have substantial at-risk percentages though nowhere near as high as we have at our current school. I feel like if we stay we will wind up in a super segregated school population but just as super outliers.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You're not missing anything. The "good on paper" schools aren't the only ones with where good teaching and admin and positive school culture can happen! Just make a plan for MS if that's what's worrying you.
OP. I guess I'm mostly worried about all the "turns out my kid wasn't learning much of anything/was desperately behind/we had to hire tutors" posts I see here from parents who sent their upper elementary students to similar-sounding schools. How do you get a sense of whether that's happening/will happen for your kid?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lottery to Basis or Latin 2nd Street. If you fail for 5th, move.
I would also lottery for better DCPS feeders that 4th grade year, just to add some more options. We just lived this and my kid got two interesting offers (good middle charter and a decent DCPS middle feeder).
It was a very very stressful process (knowing that our IB middle was not an option) but it worked out in the end.
Agree. DCI feeders are an option if you want more foreign language focus (Spanish, French, or Chinese). But the academics are less strong.
Can anyone speak to the experience of transferring to a DCI feeder in late elementary if you have a kid who is overall very bright with some language exposure (Spanish as a special every year since PK) but nothing even close to resembling immersion?
We would never have considered this before but we've struck out on the lottery three years running and therefore are in the unexpected position of looking for alternatives for 3rd or 4th grade that have better middle school and high school feeds. I understand the immersion programs are no longer teaching core subjects in the immersion language by late elementary so maybe it wouldn't be as big of an adjustment as coming over in 1st or 2nd? I truly have no idea.
I also worry about the academics in any school we can get a spot at in 3rd or 4th. That means people are leaving despite the middle school feed right?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lottery to Basis or Latin 2nd Street. If you fail for 5th, move.
I would also lottery for better DCPS feeders that 4th grade year, just to add some more options. We just lived this and my kid got two interesting offers (good middle charter and a decent DCPS middle feeder).
It was a very very stressful process (knowing that our IB middle was not an option) but it worked out in the end.
Agree. DCI feeders are an option if you want more foreign language focus (Spanish, French, or Chinese). But the academics are less strong.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our liberal take is let it run out until it’s socially intolerable for your kid or there’s nothing they can learn at their school.
If we wanted segregation or higher rigor those things go together and are available to us but we choose not to take them until nothing is working.
This has served us through high school. We sympathize with those who have changed schools and ache for those who are going to have kids become underprepared adults.
Curious what kinds of schools you've sent your kids to.
We are at a Title 1 on the east side that has an ok middle school and terrible high school feed. We do not want segregation but we are getting it anyway just not in the way we expected -- if we stay then next year our older kid will be one of 3 non-black kids in the grade. We love the teachers and have found great families at the school and feel the academics are actually really solid even if the school itself has low test scores overall (we've found there is a cohort of kids on or above grade level in every class and the teachers so far have done a *great* job meeting these kids needs -- we really do not wind up having to supplement much at all though I feel that shifting for our older kid).
We feel like it's past time for us to move but got very unlucky in the lottery this past year so we're giving it another year. But what we're finding is that all our alternative options actually involve more integrated schools at least racially -- all the charters and other DCPS schools (and suburban schools if we wind up having to move) have very diverse racial demographics and still have substantial at-risk percentages though nowhere near as high as we have at our current school. I feel like if we stay we will wind up in a super segregated school population but just as super outliers.
Anonymous wrote:Our liberal take is let it run out until it’s socially intolerable for your kid or there’s nothing they can learn at their school.
If we wanted segregation or higher rigor those things go together and are available to us but we choose not to take them until nothing is working.
This has served us through high school. We sympathize with those who have changed schools and ache for those who are going to have kids become underprepared adults.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lottery to Basis or Latin 2nd Street. If you fail for 5th, move.
I would also lottery for better DCPS feeders that 4th grade year, just to add some more options. We just lived this and my kid got two interesting offers (good middle charter and a decent DCPS middle feeder).
It was a very very stressful process (knowing that our IB middle was not an option) but it worked out in the end.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You're not missing anything. The "good on paper" schools aren't the only ones with where good teaching and admin and positive school culture can happen! Just make a plan for MS if that's what's worrying you.
OP. I guess I'm mostly worried about all the "turns out my kid wasn't learning much of anything/was desperately behind/we had to hire tutors" posts I see here from parents who sent their upper elementary students to similar-sounding schools. How do you get a sense of whether that's happening/will happen for your kid?
Anonymous wrote:You're not missing anything. The "good on paper" schools aren't the only ones with where good teaching and admin and positive school culture can happen! Just make a plan for MS if that's what's worrying you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lottery to Basis or Latin 2nd Street. If you fail for 5th, move.
I would also lottery for better DCPS feeders that 4th grade year, just to add some more options. We just lived this and my kid got two interesting offers (good middle charter and a decent DCPS middle feeder).
It was a very very stressful process (knowing that our IB middle was not an option) but it worked out in the end.