Anonymous
09/04/2024 22:35
Subject: Remarriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know four divorced people who remarried.
1 is happy. 2nd husband's first marriage. Ex-H is on 3rd marriage now. They have a sweet "ours" baby who gets along great with much older sib.
1 is only a few years in. He married the AP because he got her pregnant, leading to messy divorces for both. They have since had a 2nd "ours" baby. Can't say whether it will last but this is no model for anyone. Only child on one side was very messed up by this.
1 that got divorced within 3 years. Married a divorced guy with kids. Their families did not blend well. Fiasco.
1 with teens who married a divorced co-worker with a teen (not an affair). They are doing well. Lots in common.
First time I've heard that phrase and it's absolutely disgusting.
PP. Well I learned it from DCUM and I don't have time to write biographies so I thought it would be acceptable shorthand. The people in question don't use it. So maybe park your judgement if you want people to share info.
Anonymous
09/04/2024 22:34
Subject: Remarriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know four divorced people who remarried.
1 is happy. 2nd husband's first marriage. Ex-H is on 3rd marriage now. They have a sweet "ours" baby who gets along great with much older sib.
1 is only a few years in. He married the AP because he got her pregnant, leading to messy divorces for both. They have since had a 2nd "ours" baby. Can't say whether it will last but this is no model for anyone. Only child on one side was very messed up by this.
1 that got divorced within 3 years. Married a divorced guy with kids. Their families did not blend well. Fiasco.
1 with teens who married a divorced co-worker with a teen (not an affair). They are doing well. Lots in common.
First time I've heard that phrase and it's absolutely disgusting.
Really? Never heard of his, hers, and 'ours'? How is that disgusting?
I will say though that IME the ours kids I know of have it made and tend to be 'successful' kids/people.
Anonymous
09/04/2024 22:30
Subject: Remarriages
Anonymous wrote:I know four divorced people who remarried.
1 is happy. 2nd husband's first marriage. Ex-H is on 3rd marriage now. They have a sweet "ours" baby who gets along great with much older sib.
1 is only a few years in. He married the AP because he got her pregnant, leading to messy divorces for both. They have since had a 2nd "ours" baby. Can't say whether it will last but this is no model for anyone. Only child on one side was very messed up by this.
1 that got divorced within 3 years. Married a divorced guy with kids. Their families did not blend well. Fiasco.
1 with teens who married a divorced co-worker with a teen (not an affair). They are doing well. Lots in common.
First time I've heard that phrase and it's absolutely disgusting.