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Anonymous wrote:I've only been to 3: Jamaica, Bahamas, and St Lucia.

In Jamaica I stayed at The Caves, which is a lovely property near Negril. We had a romantic private dinner in a cave with about 100 candles. I am not great with heights, so all of the stairs made me a bit nervous, but it was a cool property. Food was better than expected. When we left the property to go to a pubic beach, I hated it. Felt like I couldn't turn around without someone trying to sell me something I didn't want or scam us. So probably won't go back to Jamaica.

I attended a writing retreat in The Bahamas. We spent our days on Salt Cay (aka Blue Lagoon Island), which is a private island you can rent for events (or at least you could, back then). It was lovely on the private island, but I didn't love the Bahamas enough to want to return. Atlantis was not my vibe at all.

In St Lucia I stayed at the Body Holiday, which is a resort that focuses on wellness. They have an absolutely incredible spa complex and I believe a spa treatment is included for every full day that you stay. The thing I loved the most about this place was that it had really great snorkeling just off the beach. Very relaxing. I'd love to go back and go more upscale to Jade Mountain or Anse Chastanet or Ladera or Sugar Beach.

I'm looking at Bonaire now, but haven't been. Interested in the great snorkeling/diving.

Is Atlantis a trashy vibe? I remember Anna Nicole Smith many decades ago going there and Nick and Jessica Simpson along with a few rappers on MTV when MTV was at its peak

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Anonymous wrote:Ha to 22:19. After reading OP's last update, I think Aruba would be perfect. It's a very safe island and has direct flights. You don't need an all-inclusive b/c there are tons of places to eat, especially if you stay in Palm Beach. The water is beautiful, especially at Baby Beach, and you can take a Jeep to the East side for a totally different experience.

The other advantage of Aruba is that it’s out of the hurricane belt so more practical or reliable for the summer.

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Anonymous wrote:My fave is St John.

Also been to Aruba PR Bahamas DR Barbados Jamaica.

Aruba is prob second fave and one positive is outside of the hurricane belt.

Oh I’ve also been to T&C. Stayed at Beaches and didn’t really see anything else - kids were 1 and 3 at the time. I think people like T&C generally and I would return to that resort if I felt like paying for it again. I got it cheaper back then than what I see now plus I have 3 kids now.

Anonymous wrote:My fave is St John.

Also been to Aruba PR Bahamas DR Barbados Jamaica.

Aruba is prob second fave and one positive is outside of the hurricane belt.

Anonymous wrote:Ha to 22:19. After reading OP's last update, I think Aruba would be perfect. It's a very safe island and has direct flights. You don't need an all-inclusive b/c there are tons of places to eat, especially if you stay in Palm Beach. The water is beautiful, especially at Baby Beach, and you can take a Jeep to the East side for a totally different experience.