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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like.

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

If you haven’t had sex in years…..as happened with me….,you have to find someone who is patient and a good listener. I was lucky and found someone like that who put up with my nervousness and anxiety. I was in pretty good shape for 53 but I was 53, not 23. When the time was right I was so ready and it was wonderful.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like.

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

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Anonymous wrote:The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Every man you see in the media these days is jacked with 5% body fat and the clear message is that's what's considered "hot" and no, you are not allowed to be an "imperfect" fat slob.

Maybe if you hadn't let them do this to women since the beginning, we'd have more sympathy for the fact that it's starting to happen to you, too.

I have absolutely no control over the p0rn industry, so I didn't "let" them do anything to women.

I am not asking for sympathy, I'm simply stating that the previous claim that men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies is wrong.

But thanks for your stupid remark.

Nah, bro, by and large, it's true. The range of "doable" men is far greater than the range for women. Men, generally speaking, are allowed a lot more imperfection than women. Still.

Sorry someone hurt you. (it wasn't me)

You'll be fine. Just be aware of "virgin" vagina. The first time I did it after a couple years (and I was post menopausal) I was so irritated and raw. The sex was great, just not the day after. Saw the gyno and I'm on vaginal estrogen tabs. Made a huge difference.
Also, don't worry about pubes. Thankfully, just a trim on length and you're good to go. I have never, nor will I ever take it up the bum.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Every man you see in the media these days is jacked with 5% body fat and the clear message is that's what's considered "hot" and no, you are not allowed to be an "imperfect" fat slob.

Maybe if you hadn't let them do this to women since the beginning, we'd have more sympathy for the fact that it's starting to happen to you, too.

I have absolutely no control over the p0rn industry, so I didn't "let" them do anything to women.

I am not asking for sympathy, I'm simply stating that the previous claim that men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies is wrong.

But thanks for your stupid remark.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Every man you see in the media these days is jacked with 5% body fat and the clear message is that's what's considered "hot" and no, you are not allowed to be an "imperfect" fat slob.

Maybe if you hadn't let them do this to women since the beginning, we'd have more sympathy for the fact that it's starting to happen to you, too.

Anonymous wrote:The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Every man you see in the media these days is jacked with 5% body fat and the clear message is that's what's considered "hot" and no, you are not allowed to be an "imperfect" fat slob.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like.

Anonymous wrote:The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Can't tell you how many arrogant men I've met-- bald, fat, weird skin tags-- who still seem to feel they are god's gift and entitled to only sleep with women with 20-year-old bods.

Good point. A good start would be when woman stop judging other women the way they look. On this very forum women are quick see fat women in a negative way. Men don’t judge fat men the same degree women judge other fat women. Women only start caring when they are old and realize that they no longer get the same attention so now they start standing up for other women.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

I have never met a woman who didn’t think she wasn’t a great kisser

Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Can't tell you how many arrogant men I've met-- bald, fat, weird skin tags-- who still seem to feel they are god's gift and entitled to only sleep with women with 20-year-old bods.

It sounds like as if written by a teenage boy.