For me it's when I meet a guy and just want to touch him, talk to him, spend time with him, get to know him, look at him. That's chemistry I feel, the problem is if they don't feel it too, but if they do that's real chemistry.

Anonymous wrote:Its temporary , don't chase it

Nope. My husband and I have been together for 18 years, we still got it.

Its temporary , don't chase it

Anonymous wrote:When people say they have chemistry, are they talking purely physical? What is chemistry exactly?

Chemistry is the scientific study of the properties and behavior of matter.
It is a physical science within the natural sciences that studies the chemical elements that make up matter and compounds made of atoms, molecules and ions: their composition, structure, properties, behavior and the changes they undergo during reactions with other substances.
Chemistry also addresses the nature of chemical bonds in chemical compounds.

Chemistry? It’s a course I failed in high school.

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Anonymous wrote:When it happens you will know. You feel almost at one with each other on an emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even intellectual level.

Right - to me, chemistry is way more emotional/mental than physical.

+1

Anonymous wrote:There are three types-emotional, physical, and intellectual. If you find all three with someone and can sustain all three over time, lucky you!

+1 it’s being on the same wavelength in those three areas. When you are it’s easy to get over any bumps in the road. We have all three but what I really appreciate is that my husband, who is very successful, truly respects my intelligence and decision making. That really enhances the emotional and physical.