Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No, I don't remember it all. I have vague memories of my driving instructor. I remember merging onto the highway in a frightening way one of the first times I drove alone, but I don't remember my parents handing me any keys, don't remember driving by myself for the first time.
It's really not a big deal.
Speak for yourself. It was a huge deal to me. I was the only one of my friends who inherited a junker car from my brother, so it was our ticket to freedom. It was awesome.![]()
You do understand you asked for people's opinion, OP, and they have the right to disagree with you.
I am not OP.
PP said “it’s really not a big deal.” The connotation there is that it’s generally not a big deal to anyone. Otherwise she would have said “it wasn’t a big deal for me.”
Just pointing out, like you did, it’s not the same for everyone.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No, I don't remember it all. I have vague memories of my driving instructor. I remember merging onto the highway in a frightening way one of the first times I drove alone, but I don't remember my parents handing me any keys, don't remember driving by myself for the first time.
It's really not a big deal.
Speak for yourself. It was a huge deal to me. I was the only one of my friends who inherited a junker car from my brother, so it was our ticket to freedom. It was awesome.![]()
You do understand you asked for people's opinion, OP, and they have the right to disagree with you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No, I don't remember it all. I have vague memories of my driving instructor. I remember merging onto the highway in a frightening way one of the first times I drove alone, but I don't remember my parents handing me any keys, don't remember driving by myself for the first time.
It's really not a big deal.
I guess it varies by individual and generation. In the days before the internet, one had to actually leave the house for something as simple as renting a video, going to the movies or buying a record album.
I grew up before the Internet.
Having a car and the things I did with and IN the car, are very memorable. But it's not like it was an instant party the second I got my driver's license. Maybe that's what it is about? My parents had me driving with them to places like the grocery store and school and then slowly started allowing me to take the car by myself to work (2 miles away) and then alone to school (25 minutes away), and then even longer before I was allowed to drive people around. Of course, the moment they gave me keys and said I could go on my own, but wasn't allowed to drive other people, I know I immediately disregarded that, but not being able to openly drive around with lots of people did keep a lid on the excitement.
I think by the time I had a car and full privileges to do what I want, it was kind of boring.
Anonymous wrote:No, it wasn't important to me at all. But then I lived in a capital city with excellent public transportation, so there was no rush to get a license. I got mine at 19 in anticipation of going to the US for grad school, where I knew I'd need a car at some point - and then I didn't get my own car until my first child was born.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No, I don't remember it all. I have vague memories of my driving instructor. I remember merging onto the highway in a frightening way one of the first times I drove alone, but I don't remember my parents handing me any keys, don't remember driving by myself for the first time.
It's really not a big deal.
I guess it varies by individual and generation. In the days before the internet, one had to actually leave the house for something as simple as renting a video, going to the movies or buying a record album.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No, I don't remember it all. I have vague memories of my driving instructor. I remember merging onto the highway in a frightening way one of the first times I drove alone, but I don't remember my parents handing me any keys, don't remember driving by myself for the first time.
It's really not a big deal.
Speak for yourself. It was a huge deal to me. I was the only one of my friends who inherited a junker car from my brother, so it was our ticket to freedom. It was awesome.