Anonymous wrote:Comment on his post “living your best life” and see what he says.

In all seriousness it sounds like you have some insecurities that you may want to address before being with anyone else.

Good one.

Screen shot it all as well:

These loser types are usually full of lame excuses or gaslighting

Anonymous wrote:OP clearly has unresolved issues. She's upset that someone she isn't dating isn't sitting home crying over her all day. She's mad that he has friends who look nice and are happy with him. Maybe this means OP is in love with him and lonely herself, and she should react to her jealousy by trying to lock him back down.

Yeah, it’s called losing hope and faith in someone. It confirms your fears: he’s a self centered, shallow, possibly manipulative loser who’s all talk, no substance.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you two in your late 20s?

This seems normal to me.

Boat owners/tanners/bikini wearers sort together.

No, he’s 34. I agree but I think it was the smiling while filming himself and the others is what gave me an odd feeling.

Yes it’s BS.

At age 30+ wanting to reconcile with a former love would be the focus. It a concert. Not bikini women photos. Not posting on social media.

Hard pass. There was way more 35 yo mature guys out there.

Comment on his post “living your best life” and see what he says.

In all seriousness it sounds like you have some insecurities that you may want to address before being with anyone else.

OP clearly has unresolved issues. She's upset that someone she isn't dating isn't sitting home crying over her all day. She's mad that he has friends who look nice and are happy with him. Maybe this means OP is in love with him and lonely herself, and she should react to her jealousy by trying to lock him back down.

Anonymous wrote:He is attempting to lure you in with some concert tickets. Don’t take the bait. You broke up for a reason.

This. Or at least don't get swept away with the tickets. It's called lobe bombing when people do this ignoring elephants in the room and trying to paint a rosy picture of the relationship. I'd maybe ask to meet for dinner and actually hash out what's going on. He seems a bit depressed and love bombing himself right now.

He is attempting to lure you in with some concert tickets. Don’t take the bait. You broke up for a reason.

Women who wear bikinis are brazen hussies!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you two in your late 20s?

This seems normal to me.

Boat owners/tanners/bikini wearers sort together.

No, he’s 34. I agree but I think it was the smiling while filming himself and the others is what gave me an odd feeling.

so he shouldn't smile?

How long have you been broken up? Unless you’re absolute done with him, after years of being together, you should at least have a conversation vs trying to interpret his behavior.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you two in your late 20s?

This seems normal to me.

Boat owners/tanners/bikini wearers sort together.

No, he’s 34. I agree but I think it was the smiling while filming himself and the others is what gave me an odd feeling.

What matters is who those women are to him not what they are wearing.

Unless he was a hound dog before.

Anonymous wrote:For the 10th time in this thread, trust your gut Op. I know you want anonymous strangers to give you permission to reconcile, but you already know you shouldn't. I think it's not just his behavior when he is supposedly hoping to reconcile, but also the fact that he seems like a cheese ball.

So using social media like you’re supposed to (show off life/show having fun) makes you a cheese ball?

For the 10th time in this thread, trust your gut Op. I know you want anonymous strangers to give you permission to reconcile, but you already know you shouldn't. I think it's not just his behavior when he is supposedly hoping to reconcile, but also the fact that he seems like a cheese ball.

Anonymous wrote:Are you two in your late 20s?

This seems normal to me.

Boat owners/tanners/bikini wearers sort together.

No, he’s 34. I agree but I think it was the smiling while filming himself and the others is what gave me an odd feeling.

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Anonymous wrote:People take selfie videos of themselves everywhere.

Actually no. Not everyone is going around taking selfies and posting them.
You do that to show off.

Most people with social media show off with it.

The message might just be "It's a sunny day and I have a friend with a boat".