Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what OP means by awesome. But I would rather be treated ok by a hot guy than treated awesome by an average-looking guy.

I'd rather be treated ok by a super rich ugly guy then awesome by a hot poor guy.

Then you are an idiot.

Anonymous wrote:What definition of "awesome partner" doesn't include treating your partner well?

This

Anonymous wrote:How true is this in your observation, friend circle, family, or your own life?

This questions makes no sense.

So an awesome person is shallow?

And a not good person tests you awesome? Whatever that means .


Go back to Reddit or some philosophy site.

Anonymous wrote:The implicit idea here is that if you just settled, you could find someone who would treat you really well. I don't think that's how it works.

Not at all how it works. Short, ugly, bald, poor men can be a$$holes just like anyone else.

I can't bring myself to call someone an "awesome partner" if he only treats me "ok". Does not compute. An awesome partner treats their partner awesomely.

I don't understand how someone can be an awesome partner and yet treat their partner ok. It makes zero sense.

I want to be treated well by a great partner. I don’t need awesome either way.

Men who have a little bit of empathy toward women are usually pretty notoriously loved by women.
I can’t think of a single guy I know who has sisters and generally treats women well who doesn’t have half a dozen women secretly in love with him.

Anonymous wrote:What definition of "awesome partner" doesn't include treating your partner well?

My question too.

Anonymous wrote:What definition of "awesome partner" doesn't include treating your partner well?

How are these not the same thing? If he doesn't treat you awesomely, he's not an awesome partner.

I'd rather have a guy who pulled his weight but wasn't hot & rich than the reverse

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what OP means by awesome. But I would rather be treated ok by a hot guy than treated awesome by an average-looking guy.

I'd rather be treated ok by a super rich ugly guy then awesome by a hot poor guy.

this

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what OP means by awesome. But I would rather be treated ok by a hot guy than treated awesome by an average-looking guy.

I'd rather be treated ok by a super rich ugly guy then awesome by a hot poor guy.

Anonymous wrote:i don't think i'd call them an awesome partner if they only treated me "OK".

This^. What good awesomeness is for? To flaunt them around to impress others or put them in temple and worship them for their awesomeness.

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what OP means by awesome. But I would rather be treated ok by a hot guy than treated awesome by an average-looking guy.

If its short term, you might prefer getting treated lukewarmly okay by a hot guy but in long term you need an okay guy who thinks you are awesome and treats you accordingly.