Anonymous wrote:My wife and I are trying to save up to pay for our daughter’s college, but lately, my mother has been making this very difficult. She keeps asking for money because she didn’t save properly for retirement. I wouldn’t have a problem helping if I didn’t have my own family to support. Our daughter gets bad grades and isn’t involved in athletics or any other extracurricular activities, so no college is going to give her a scholarship and my mother knows this. Some grandparents add to their grandchild’s college fund; we’re just asking her not to take from her grandchild’s college fund.