OP here. Thanks for these good ideas. I will sleep in her bed the next few nights and she can sleep in the guest room and we’ll see what happens.
I have cleaned and vacuumed so much in her room I can’t imagine there are spiders (plus aren’t spider bites usually just a few? her torso is covered). I will have to investigate carpet beetles and their bites, although wouldn’t a pest control company have found evidence of these? I’m so stumped.
I should have added in my o.p. that when this peoblem happened last summer, after the pest control companies said no bed bugs, we vacuumed her mattress and put an encaser on it and her pillows (the sheets that we change weekly are on top)