Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:44     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
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Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in a entirely different building.


You don’t know how monitors work?


I said the choices were having the toddlers in the house, which means everyone can gather there to on socialize after they are asleep, or having the toddlers sleep in apartments a few blocks away, which would mean that someone needs to stay with them once they are asleep.

I get how a monitor works, but I don’t see how it would solve this problem.


You didn't actually explain that the accommodations weren't all on the same property. That would have been very helpful.


That's a bizarre assumption to make. Do you have multiple apartments on the same property as your single family house? I've never even seen that arrangement.


When you call it a "main" house you are implying that it's some sort of compound with various accommodations. Sorry you can't communicate clearly.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:42     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
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Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in a entirely different building.


You don’t know how monitors work?


I said the choices were having the toddlers in the house, which means everyone can gather there to on socialize after they are asleep, or having the toddlers sleep in apartments a few blocks away, which would mean that someone needs to stay with them once they are asleep.

I get how a monitor works, but I don’t see how it would solve this problem.


You didn't actually explain that the accommodations weren't all on the same property. That would have been very helpful.


That's a bizarre assumption to make. Do you have multiple apartments on the same property as your single family house? I've never even seen that arrangement.


Look, you're been an argumentative ass when you're the one asking for help. I have definitely rented accommodations at the beach that had a main house and guest house on the same property. I hope your vacation sucks at this point. Enjoy light out at 7pm.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:40     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Anonymous wrote:Are these toddlers in the same family?

They should stay in apartment. Adults should stay in main house. That way no one has to stay quiet for toddlers late at night or during nap time.

Toddlers should stay in same apartment and that way only one adult has to stay and watch them.

Don’t make everyone in the main house have to deal with toddlers 24 7.


And we wonder why parents get PDD and so few people choose to procreate.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:40     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Don’t put parents in the apartment. It’s so isolating when the kids have to nap so much and go to bed early. I hated when that would happen to us. Please don’t do this to them. Please put independent adults over there. They can come and go as needed.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:37     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Are these toddlers in the same family?

They should stay in apartment. Adults should stay in main house. That way no one has to stay quiet for toddlers late at night or during nap time.

Toddlers should stay in same apartment and that way only one adult has to stay and watch them.

Don’t make everyone in the main house have to deal with toddlers 24 7.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:32     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
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Anonymous wrote:They should stay in the apartment so they don’t annoy everyone else with their whining and crying.


That isn’t a factor for us.


Hah. Yeah right.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:32     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Anonymous wrote:They should stay in the apartment so they don’t annoy everyone else with their whining and crying.


This
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:27     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in a entirely different building.


You don’t know how monitors work?


I said the choices were having the toddlers in the house, which means everyone can gather there to on socialize after they are asleep, or having the toddlers sleep in apartments a few blocks away, which would mean that someone needs to stay with them once they are asleep.

I get how a monitor works, but I don’t see how it would solve this problem.


You didn't actually explain that the accommodations weren't all on the same property. That would have been very helpful.


That's a bizarre assumption to make. Do you have multiple apartments on the same property as your single family house? I've never even seen that arrangement.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:24     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in a entirely different building.


You don’t know how monitors work?


I said the choices were having the toddlers in the house, which means everyone can gather there to on socialize after they are asleep, or having the toddlers sleep in apartments a few blocks away, which would mean that someone needs to stay with them once they are asleep.

I get how a monitor works, but I don’t see how it would solve this problem.


You didn't actually explain that the accommodations weren't all on the same property. That would have been very helpful.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:17     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in a entirely different building.


You don’t know how monitors work?


I said the choices were having the toddlers in the house, which means everyone can gather there to on socialize after they are asleep, or having the toddlers sleep in apartments a few blocks away, which would mean that someone needs to stay with them once they are asleep.

I get how a monitor works, but I don’t see how it would solve this problem.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:17     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
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Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in an entirely different building.


If you aren’t the parent then why is this your decision?


Somehow I ended up with this responsibility of making a proposal for room allocation.


I don't understand the choices of 2 adults missing out on all the fun because bedtime is 7pm. That's not how it actually has to go.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:11     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
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Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in an entirely different building.


If you aren’t the parent then why is this your decision?


Somehow I ended up with this responsibility of making a proposal for room allocation.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 15:04     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in a entirely different building.


You don’t know how monitors work?
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 14:34     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in an entirely different building.


If you aren’t the parent then why is this your decision?
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2024 14:32     Subject: Toddlers and a house with a pool
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The pool is irrelevant if there are 4 fences. Will the kids be kept awake by noise from the big house? Will everyone be shushed because toddlers are sleeping? If so, toddlers go to apartments.


I think if our choices are between all socializing together and having to be a little hushed, and having 2 adults have to miss on all socializing after 7 p.m. since they need to stay with the sleeping toddlers, everyone would pick the former.


No everyone doesn’t pick that. Bring a monitor.


I am part of the “everyone”, not the parent of either toddler. I don’t see how monitors helps if the toddlers are asleep in a entirely different building.