The only things I expect from my sil is to be respectful and love my daughter and there sons (1 is his stepson hers from a previous relationship).

Not a "chip on the shoulder" type eager for confrontation. Well mannered and cultured or at least open to cultural learning/ travel/ food.

Love my child and act like a healthy adult

Recognize that my child has a FOO and share holidays.

Other than that: nothing.

Anonymous wrote:What are (if any) expectations do you've from your future kids in law?

That they love and are kind to my child.

Anonymous wrote:Learn English.

Critical IL has landed.

Learn English.