Anonymous wrote:So I am the only one surprised that people actuallY clicked on the links?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH

If you're going to buy a fantasy, I'd buy a nicer one. $20 lingerie looks cheap, and fits terribly, regardless of how fit you are. Some people enjoy feeling cheap, and if that's what you/your partner are into, I'm not gonna knock it. But if you're putting on a surprise, buy something nice.

https://www.usagentprovocateur.com/collections/lingerie-playsuits-women-c-10_13.html?Z2VuZGVyPTE= (a variety of styles/moods/options, many on sale)
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/in-bloom-by-jonquil-plunge-neck-lace-thong-teddy/5319504
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/rya-collection-darling-sheer-lace-robe/5507970 + any nice bra/panty set (bonus for contrasting color and open-gusset panties)

A massage is nice, but a sensory kit is more fun, as is the power exchange of teasing. You don't have to tie him up (unless you want to), but a simple blindfold and a few tactile options (fuzzy, silky, warm/cold, gently scratchy) is usually great for putting someone in their body and getting them warmed up. Doesn't have to be store-bought (though there are kits, candles that melt wax at body-safe temps, etc.); you've probably got pleasant sensory objects in your home already. If you're both on the shy/vanilla side of things, this can even be a game where you reveal what the items were after you're done playing.

If the fantasy is "i wanted to please you", you have to know pleasure to give pleasure. Make sure whatever you're buying/doing does it for you, first. That's always hot. Turned on women do it for most men.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH

If you're going to buy a fantasy, I'd buy a nicer one. $20 lingerie looks cheap, and fits terribly, regardless of how fit you are. Some people enjoy feeling cheap, and if that's what you/your partner are into, I'm not gonna knock it. But if you're putting on a surprise, buy something nice.

https://www.usagentprovocateur.com/collections/lingerie-playsuits-women-c-10_13.html?Z2VuZGVyPTE= (a variety of styles/moods/options, many on sale)
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/in-bloom-by-jonquil-plunge-neck-lace-thong-teddy/5319504
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/rya-collection-darling-sheer-lace-robe/5507970 + any nice bra/panty set (bonus for contrasting color and open-gusset panties)

A massage is nice, but a sensory kit is more fun, as is the power exchange of teasing. You don't have to tie him up (unless you want to), but a simple blindfold and a few tactile options (fuzzy, silky, warm/cold, gently scratchy) is usually great for putting someone in their body and getting them warmed up. Doesn't have to be store-bought (though there are kits, candles that melt wax at body-safe temps, etc.); you've probably got pleasant sensory objects in your home already. If you're both on the shy/vanilla side of things, this can even be a game where you reveal what the items were after you're done playing.

If the fantasy is "i wanted to please you", you have to know pleasure to give pleasure. Make sure whatever you're buying/doing does it for you, first. That's always hot. Turned on women do it for most men.

Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:#2 of what was shown is the best. Also look at Frederick's of Hollywood. Their stuff will stand up to heavy use.

By the way OP, when I roleplay I like the costumes to be authentic. A woman who shows up dressed like a Singapore Airlines Flight Attendant, in an authentic Singapore Airlines uniform, will have my heart forever.

Fair enough! I’ll leave the cheap cheesy costumes out of it. I’m going to go ahead and get option 2 and I realized even if he laughs, I will be fine with that. I really just want to try something new. I have a pretty good sense of humor about my sex life so I imagine
we would have a good time either way, I just want to make sure it’s HOT! Haha

Anonymous wrote:#2 of what was shown is the best. Also look at Frederick's of Hollywood. Their stuff will stand up to heavy use.

By the way OP, when I roleplay I like the costumes to be authentic. A woman who shows up dressed like a Singapore Airlines Flight Attendant, in an authentic Singapore Airlines uniform, will have my heart forever.