Anonymous wrote:In the western culture men put women on an pedestool. I'm sure some western men wonder if women fart. No guys seriously stop bending backwards to please women. Be a gentleman, kind, helpful and trustworthy. And these qualities are not enough to "please" most western women.

Would you cut the "western culture" crap? Yeah, people like Trump who is the "savior of the west" really puts them on one when he isn't busy assaulting or cheating on them.

Anne Hathaway

Annie Bot

Anonymous wrote:A women who doesn't think in platitudes and abstractions (like 'your dream woman') and can see me as a person, live life with me specifically, and love me specifically.

Do you have a special need you hide that will come out later?

Don't nag me.
Feed me.
F me.

Anonymous wrote:Men tell me about what your dream woman is like personality wise? What makes a woman be someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? What’s the most romantic thing a woman has ever done for you? How do you like to be catered to?

I try hard to be a desirable partner and would love to get inspiration from others on ways to be better.

Sexually open is a big plus, of course. It’s nice to feel desired, and spontaneity coming from her in that department is always well received. Other forms of romantic gesture don’t typically move the needle much. What I think men really want is a woman who can have fun with them—can be any form really, people vary; it isn’t about the specifics but about the ability to, at least at times, switch off the worry/to-do/judgy mindset and have a good time—and one who credibly signals she is “ride or die” and has his back win or lose. Most men, i think, like the “partner in crime” vibe from their significant other and don’t get enough of it. Obviously things cant and shouldn’t always feel that way, life can be serious at times. But that’s the main gap for many IMO.

Short skirt, long jacket. Duh.

Anonymous wrote:Men are simple. They want a woman who is pretty, easygoing, and has sex with them.

I think the easygoing and up for sex is even more important than being pretty. Putting in the effort to be feminine and attractive is all most men really require.

Men are simple. They want a woman who is pretty, easygoing, and has sex with them.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A women who doesn't think in platitudes and abstractions (like 'your dream woman') and can see me as a person, live life with me specifically, and love me specifically.

That means she’s an accessory blending into your life. What do you offer to her ? Do you give flowers, a good provider, a great parent ?

Give flowers? Life isn’t a Hallmark holiday. I can’t believe this is the first thing you list as part of being a good partner.

- a woman

Anonymous wrote:In the western culture men put women on an pedestool. I'm sure some western men wonder if women fart. No guys seriously stop bending backwards to please women. Be a gentleman, kind, helpful and trustworthy. And these qualities are not enough to "please" most western women.

Because the expectations of women are so high that 90% of dating for men is rejection. Therefore, when anyone decent comes along, they try to lock them down.

Anonymous wrote:In the western culture men put women on an pedestool. I'm sure some western men wonder if women fart. No guys seriously stop bending backwards to please women. Be a gentleman, kind, helpful and trustworthy. And these qualities are not enough to "please" most western women.

Come on, most men nowadays are nothing close to gentlemen. There is no dating with flowers, planning dates anymore. Only “hanging out” and “what are you up to??”

It kills desire to be a woman of his dreams for him

Anonymous wrote:In the western culture men put women on an pedestool. I'm sure some western men wonder if women fart. No guys seriously stop bending backwards to please women. Be a gentleman, kind, helpful and trustworthy. And these qualities are not enough to "please" most western women.

lol.. I knew this guy who only had a brother. When he went to college, he was in a coed dorm where the bathrooms had stalls. He said he heard a girl fart, and was shocked. He said he didn't realize girls farted. LOL

My brother was his bf, and he is the only boy sibling in our family, so he is well aware of what girls are like.

In the western culture men put women on an pedestool. I'm sure some western men wonder if women fart. No guys seriously stop bending backwards to please women. Be a gentleman, kind, helpful and trustworthy. And these qualities are not enough to "please" most western women.

My dream woman is one that won't compare me to other men.