Anonymous wrote:Op here. He can't read bob books yet because he can't read. He knows some letter sounds, but it does not click to him that he can use phonics to read word. Are you all saying that I should read complex books with many words to him instead of those simple books like bob, baby/toddler books? We both are annoyed at those stupid books. My goal is that he can read. He already has IEP intervention on it
Yes.
Read aloud is for enjoyment. If everything is boring he’ll not WANT to do it himself.
And then read some of the shorte picture books for fun rhyming and word play such as books like Dr Seuss or easy-to -predict endings like Berenstain Bears or just a nice or funny story like Curious George or Corduroy. Maybe throw in some
Harry the Dirty Dog or Eleohant and Piggie or Pigeon books. Mercer Mayer books (about the little critter and his family) are also fun for kids (boys on my preschool/Kinder class particularly loved these)…
And here’s the catch: when you read the picture books with 10 or fewer words on a page with him, have him sit beside you and track the words with your finger as you read. Don’t make a big deal of it. Just make it a habit to do it so that he has a visual that the words you are saying correspond to the words on the page. One-to-one correspondence is a BIG concept in learning to read.
Try not to stress too much about this, but do have shared reading time every day where you just read to him for enjoyment.
Also separately you can do sight word flash cards.
This is not phonics but just rote memorizing of high-frequency words that he needs to just see-and-know on sight without needing to sound out. It’s like when he sees a stop sign—he knows that word is STOP because he encounters it all the time. Same with words that appear in print a lot. The more you practice (at first five words, the 10, then 20)—soon he’ll start to gain confidence in identifying these words when he encounters them on the printed page.
OP—I know it’s stressful but most kids DO
learn to read relatively fluently by 3rd grade.
If you notice a significant delay still exists by mid first grade, ask for testing for dyslexia.