Anonymous
Post 05/04/2024 22:43     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
I usually do, yes. Just this morning when I dropped my dad at the airport, he said, "Tell <DH's Name> I love him.

And I did.
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2024 20:38     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
I think it goes along with telling the second person about your interaction with the first person.

I can't imagine telling DW "I ran into Larla at CVS. She said they're buying a boat." And not adding, "She said to say hi."

In fact, I've probably said "She said to say hi" a few times when Larla didn't actually.
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2024 18:49     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
I always convey a verbal message, and if someone says, "Give 'em a hug from me," I say, "Larla says Hi!"
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2024 18:44     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
If it’s someone I’m close to I absolutely hug a bit extra and say “Oh and this is one Jean said to give you”
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2024 17:24     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
If I remember to do so. Which is probably less than half the time.
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2024 02:27     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
Sure.

I saw Larla today, she’s doing great, and said to say hi to you.
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2024 00:22     Subject: Re:“Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
Only when children are involved.
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2024 00:11     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
Anonymous wrote:You do understand that you have a legal obligation to convey the hug?


Lol
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2024 22:31     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
I give a hug if we are hugging friends already. One arm hug if we’re not.
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2024 17:12     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
Anonymous wrote:My DH does all the time and I find it annoying. He's always telling me about the people that ask about me on phone calls or in conversation. I never reciprocate.

He is a really nice person, though, so I guess that's what being considerate does


You find it annoying to hear that people your husband speaks to wish you well? (because that's what it means).
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2024 17:11     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
I deliver the specific message but don't do the actual hugging.
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2024 17:08     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
I do. I don’t give them an actual hug or kiss from them but I will tell them and say they said hi or that they asked how they were doing.
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2024 14:28     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
Anonymous wrote:My DH does all the time and I find it annoying. He's always telling me about the people that ask about me on phone calls or in conversation. I never reciprocate.

He is a really nice person, though, so I guess that's what being considerate does


And you are not.
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2024 14:27     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
Yes, I do.
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2024 14:26     Subject: “Give them a hug for me”, “Tell her I said hi” etc - Do you ever actually relay the hug or message?
My DH does all the time and I find it annoying. He's always telling me about the people that ask about me on phone calls or in conversation. I never reciprocate.

He is a really nice person, though, so I guess that's what being considerate does