Anonymous wrote:At the parochial in hyattsville I believe the fourth child is free. But they have a waitlist I think it might be tough to get all four in.

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Anonymous wrote:Don't act like a beggar because the rich people are not acting like beggars. It would be traumatic for kids whose family get labeled as the poor ones at the rich kid school. Go to public schools and take alittle pride in what your tax dollars already pay for. You could also volunteer which instills character and pride.

We’re not acting like a beggar-we’ve never asked for aid nor planned to even with kid 3. So thanks for the advice-it’s so very helpful.

Our IB is Dunbar-are you sending your children there currently? Granted things could change in 4 years, but I’m not too hopeful.

You had four kids. Planned or not you knew the issue. Get a second job.

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Anonymous wrote:So you bought in the Dunbar cachement. No doubt a larger, cheaper house than if you bought in the JR cachement or in one of the surrounding counties with a solid path from ES through HS. And no doubt knowing Dunbar was unlikely to satisfy. Esp at the time you decided to have a FOURth child. And now you want other families to pick some of your tab because you like your neighborhood too much to move?

Seems your poor planning shouldn’t be someone else’s issue.

All that said, you are likely to get FA because privates don’t give much to truly poor people.

Not sure I would classify our 1400 sq ft 2 bedrooom row house just south of FT Totten as “larger and cheaper” than NW, but it fit the budget at the time we bought and I don’t think we could have gotten the same thing over in NW. We didn’t think about high school, no, but also didn’t plan on a fourth surprise kid due to secondary infertility after adopting siblings, so maybe poor planning, or just what ended up being and we are trying to make the best of it with what we have.

My feeling is we make too much and should not qualify, but maybe we don’t, so no harm in a general inquiry to try to make a more informed decision on what to do moving forward. We’re not sure the schools would even give us the light of day since we’re not seriously looking yet at the hii of there tuition levels.

Yes, you couldn’t have gotten the same space for the same money in a more reliable pyramid so you took a chance and got more house and less school and now want someone else to pay for more school rather than moving. Probably people who chose to have less house and fewer kids so they could afford more school.

Yes, poor planning.

And yes, ask for the money. The schools can just say no.

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Anonymous wrote:So you bought in the Dunbar cachement. No doubt a larger, cheaper house than if you bought in the JR cachement or in one of the surrounding counties with a solid path from ES through HS. And no doubt knowing Dunbar was unlikely to satisfy. Esp at the time you decided to have a FOURth child. And now you want other families to pick some of your tab because you like your neighborhood too much to move?

Seems your poor planning shouldn’t be someone else’s issue.

All that said, you are likely to get FA because privates don’t give much to truly poor people.

Not sure I would classify our 1400 sq ft 2 bedrooom row house just south of FT Totten as “larger and cheaper” than NW, but it fit the budget at the time we bought and I don’t think we could have gotten the same thing over in NW. We didn’t think about high school, no, but also didn’t plan on a fourth surprise kid due to secondary infertility after adopting siblings, so maybe poor planning, or just what ended up being and we are trying to make the best of it with what we have.

My feeling is we make too much and should not qualify, but maybe we don’t, so no harm in a general inquiry to try to make a more informed decision on what to do moving forward. We’re not sure the schools would even give us the light of day since we’re not seriously looking yet at the hii of there tuition levels.

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Anonymous wrote:So you bought in the Dunbar cachement. No doubt a larger, cheaper house than if you bought in the JR cachement or in one of the surrounding counties with a solid path from ES through HS. And no doubt knowing Dunbar was unlikely to satisfy. Esp at the time you decided to have a FOURth child. And now you want other families to pick some of your tab because you like your neighborhood too much to move?

Seems your poor planning shouldn’t be someone else’s issue.

All that said, you are likely to get FA because privates don’t give much to truly poor people.

Not sure I would classify our 1400 sq ft 2 bedrooom row house just south of FT Totten as “larger and cheaper” than NW, but it fit the budget at the time we bought and I don’t think we could have gotten the same thing over in NW. We didn’t think about high school, no, but also didn’t plan on a fourth surprise kid due to secondary infertility after adopting siblings, so maybe poor planning, or just what ended up being and we are trying to make the best of it with what we have.

My feeling is we make too much and should not qualify, but maybe we don’t, so no harm in a general inquiry to try to make a more informed decision on what to do moving forward. We’re not sure the schools would even give us the light of day since we’re not seriously looking yet at the hii of there tuition levels.

Our schools are 40k+ but at 275HHI before taxes you would definitely qualify. We were at 300 one year when because of COViD I was not working and we got some FA for our 2 kids. I am sure you would qualify for some FA at 275 with 4 kids.

Also, don’t Catholic school give siblings discounts? I am pretty sure they do.


On your income you should be embarrassed to get aid.
Good luck

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Anonymous wrote:what is your actual income OP?

I agree this is a needed data point, at least for useful advice. So many people consider themselves UMC that it doesn’t mean much as a description.

HHI is $275

Not sure this is the only data point that's needed. At least at our school for variable tuition every year they leave no stone unturned to figure out what your possible financial assets are. They even check how much you've been spending on home renovations.

DP are you generally expected to deplete your assets before you would be eligible for aid? Just curious as a low-earning family with a decent net worth (that could easily be depleted before college).

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Anonymous wrote:what is your actual income OP?

I agree this is a needed data point, at least for useful advice. So many people consider themselves UMC that it doesn’t mean much as a description.

HHI is $275

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Anonymous wrote:what is your actual income OP?

I agree this is a needed data point, at least for useful advice. So many people consider themselves UMC that it doesn’t mean much as a description.

HHI is $275

Not sure this is the only data point that's needed. At least at our school for variable tuition every year they leave no stone unturned to figure out what your possible financial assets are. They even check how much you've been spending on home renovations.

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Anonymous wrote:So you bought in the Dunbar cachement. No doubt a larger, cheaper house than if you bought in the JR cachement or in one of the surrounding counties with a solid path from ES through HS. And no doubt knowing Dunbar was unlikely to satisfy. Esp at the time you decided to have a FOURth child. And now you want other families to pick some of your tab because you like your neighborhood too much to move?

Seems your poor planning shouldn’t be someone else’s issue.

All that said, you are likely to get FA because privates don’t give much to truly poor people.

Not sure I would classify our 1400 sq ft 2 bedrooom row house just south of FT Totten as “larger and cheaper” than NW, but it fit the budget at the time we bought and I don’t think we could have gotten the same thing over in NW. We didn’t think about high school, no, but also didn’t plan on a fourth surprise kid due to secondary infertility after adopting siblings, so maybe poor planning, or just what ended up being and we are trying to make the best of it with what we have.

My feeling is we make too much and should not qualify, but maybe we don’t, so no harm in a general inquiry to try to make a more informed decision on what to do moving forward. We’re not sure the schools would even give us the light of day since we’re not seriously looking yet at the hii of there tuition levels.

Anonymous wrote:So you bought in the Dunbar cachement. No doubt a larger, cheaper house than if you bought in the JR cachement or in one of the surrounding counties with a solid path from ES through HS. And no doubt knowing Dunbar was unlikely to satisfy. Esp at the time you decided to have a FOURth child. And now you want other families to pick some of your tab because you like your neighborhood too much to move?

Seems your poor planning shouldn’t be someone else’s issue.

All that said, you are likely to get FA because privates don’t give much to truly poor people.

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Anonymous wrote:Don't act like a beggar because the rich people are not acting like beggars. It would be traumatic for kids whose family get labeled as the poor ones at the rich kid school. Go to public schools and take alittle pride in what your tax dollars already pay for. You could also volunteer which instills character and pride.

We’re not acting like a beggar-we’ve never asked for aid nor planned to even with kid 3. So thanks for the advice-it’s so very helpful.

Our IB is Dunbar-are you sending your children there currently? Granted things could change in 4 years, but I’m not too hopeful.