Anonymous wrote:People who have abuse in childhood get addicted to cortisol and conflict gives them a cortisol dump.
They don’t know why they do it.
This is my sibling. We were emotionally abused and raised by a mentally ill parent.
They both yell and can’t manage emotions. I set boundaries and told them both I won’t be yelled at and any conversation with me stops when yelling begins.
It’s mental illness.