Deluded hairy men are responding, same men who complain on DCUM that their wife is never in the mood and they have no sex life. Too funny.

Anonymous wrote:Or does he do without request? I don't mind body hair on a man but I find the hair in this area to be highly unattractive. Is it okay to ask my husband to groom this area? He doesn't have a hair all over his back, it's just the lower back and buttocks. He thinks it's no big deal. I don't think it's a big deal for him to shave it while in the shower once or twice a week.

Whaaa?

Need some pics.

Are we talking the butt hair actually in the crack or just on the cheeks?

I wouldn't even know how to shave in my butt crack.

But if it bothers you then you should do it for him.

No

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you my wife? Why not just ask? I don't mind.

Why do you need to be asked? It just seems like such an obvious grooming thing to do. And hygienic. Butt hair is so gross, I'm sorry. And lower back hair is an extension of the butt hair, basically.

You might be a butch lesbian if you prefer feminine hair patterns on men.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't think I've heard of a hetero man doing this. Maybe a swimmer or a bodybuilder type? Very few men shave their body hair.

Once you do your butt, don't you kind of have to do your legs too? It would look really weird to have a shaved butt and then hairy legs.

No.

Um, yes, that would look very very strange.

Anonymous wrote:Chest hair is sexy, back hair of any kind is disgusting. Get that sh** waxed.

Forever? It's really not a big deal. Also, having strong opinions about someone else's body hair is so weird to me. It's very controlling.

Chest hair is sexy, back hair of any kind is disgusting. Get that sh** waxed.

Anonymous wrote:I don't think I've heard of a hetero man doing this. Maybe a swimmer or a bodybuilder type? Very few men shave their body hair.

Once you do your butt, don't you kind of have to do your legs too? It would look really weird to have a shaved butt and then hairy legs.

No.

Lol no. Neither of us make demands about the other persons body hair.

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Anonymous wrote:How is shaving your low back and buttocks not a big deal? What kind of crazy mirror set up do you have to have to do that? Or are you just that flexible?

Truly it can’t be harder than shaving labia. But I don’t mind hair on men I just find the double standard and demand for women to be slick as dolphins to be insane.

I'm a woman and don't shave my labia, in part because I don't want to, and in part because it is 😁 difficult to do so. My husband does not care. I would never ask him to shave or wax a part of his body he didn't want to.

Are you female, OP? If so, that is not a common or really a reasonable request. You could tell him you find him sexier then leave it up to him.

Sounds like you have talked to him and he is okay with it. Just like if he wanted you to shave a certain way and asked and you didn’t want to. No you can’t require him. People can have their bodies how they like. If hair on your spouses body grosses you out…that is immature. Bodies have all kinds of marks and rolls and spots and hair and sizes and shapes. It isn’t build-a-spouse.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you my wife? Why not just ask? I don't mind.

Why do you need to be asked? It just seems like such an obvious grooming thing to do. And hygienic. Butt hair is so gross, I'm sorry. And lower back hair is an extension of the butt hair, basically.

Well I don't ever look at it. If my wife doesn't care why bother ? Unless you want to eat my ass what do you care if there's hair in there?

Maybe offer to do it for him?