Anonymous wrote:I do not add it to the tip. The bartender is stealing from the restaurant.
As a long time bartender, I can you that most places allow the bartenders to have a house check. The house check is a certain percentage of your ring. So let's say you ring $5000 a night, your house check is up to $500 to use as you see fit. A bartender is the marketing arm of a restaurant or bar, you make people feel important, help them impress folks they are with, they come back and spend more money.
They are not stealing, if it is a reputable place they have a house check and yes, you ring up the house check as well so it's all tracked.