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Anonymous wrote:Scale of 1 to 10. And how old are you both? Know this must vary for people.

9/10 - married 25 years -together since our mid 20's

*love, care and respect 10/10

Anonymous wrote:10

I'm 59 and she is 61. She has plenty of wrinkles and had a dbl mastectomy, but to me, she is the sexiest woman alive and we both think this is the best sex of our lives.

The secret? Communication, transparency, vulnerability, and leading with love and kindness.

That’s not the secret. DH and I have all that and my attraction to him after all these years is next to nil. He’s my BFF and my roomie.

Anonymous wrote:Scale of 1 to 10. And how old are you both? Know this must vary for people.

9/10 - married 25 years -together since our mid 20's

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51 and 45, 17 years together.

Anonymous wrote:definitely a 10. Somehow, my wife is hotter at 42 then she was at 22.

sorry forgot our ages. I'm 51 (look about 44) and she is 42.

definitely a 10. Somehow, my wife is hotter at 42 then she was at 22.

Sadly about a 1 - 2. I don’t know how to fix it.

7-8 but naked in the dark a 10+. She’s a girl who likes to have fun.

Anonymous wrote:10

I'm 59 and she is 61. She has plenty of wrinkles and had a dbl mastectomy, but to me, she is the sexiest woman alive and we both think this is the best sex of our lives.

The secret? Communication, transparency, vulnerability, and leading with love and kindness.

How are men like you made?

10

I'm 59 and she is 61. She has plenty of wrinkles and had a dbl mastectomy, but to me, she is the sexiest woman alive and we both think this is the best sex of our lives.

The secret? Communication, transparency, vulnerability, and leading with love and kindness.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I guess about a 5. I feel pretty neutral about his looks. I don’t know that it was ever a lot higher than that.

I am 43. He is 46.

So you married a 5 in looks? What about him is a 10 for you?

He makes me laugh, and he’s brilliant. He’s good in bed, which was important to me. We like a lot of the same books and have similar views on things. He’s exciting and likes extremes. He likes to keep little secrets/inside jokes, which made me feel like we were part of a special club. The kids (we have 5) are part of the club too.

I feel pretty neutral about most men, looks wise. Over the course of my life, I can think of only 4-5 men that I have had a strong physical attraction to just by looking at them. DH isn’t one of those.

Can’t keep my hands off of her.

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10 until she gives me that look

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