Anonymous wrote:OP here. I didn’t ask for reimbursement, she left a $20 on my desk the next day. Interesting possibility that she’s pregnant. She has one toddler and I imagine she gets this “gimme I want it” behavior from home.

Ok well that’s good. I hope you have some sort of atmosphere at work where it was assumed it was ok for you to go get another lunch,
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Stop sleeping with her

Did she at least give you $, OP?

Anonymous wrote:This has to be a troll no one is this big of a doormat.

I spent my 20s and 30s being a doormat, so yes, I can see it happening. You're caught off-guard and can't think of a polite phrase or polite option to get out of your predicament, so you end up saying yes to authority, just because it's the easy way out in the moment. And then you stew.

So glad I'm not like this anymore. Trying to teach my kids to think on their feet.

OP here. I didn’t ask for reimbursement, she left a $20 on my desk the next day. Interesting possibility that she’s pregnant. She has one toddler and I imagine she gets this “gimme I want it” behavior from home.

Did she pay you back?

That is weird and she shouldn’t have done that.

Now if she had said, oh man I don’t have time to get lunch. Could I buy that from you and then you can go take an extra half hour for lunch and buy yourself a new one, my treat? And then gave you a twenty or whatever that would be one thing


But still weird

This has to be a troll no one is this big of a doormat.

Anonymous wrote:I understand why you felt you couldn't say no, but your boss was 100% OUT OF LINE.

Next time, please say, "Sorry, can I order you something? I really want to eat this."

Yes, this. I know it's a sport here to bash the OP, and I too thought OP should have said no, but this behavior from a boss would be completely inappropriate. If this post were real, I would be wondering if this was just a way of shaming an employee for taking lunch and implying she should work through it.

Did she pay?

Anonymous wrote:I understand why you felt you couldn't say no, but your boss was 100% OUT OF LINE.

Next time, please say, "Sorry, can I order you something? I really want to eat this."

And make sure to get reimbursed.

I understand why you felt you couldn't say no, but your boss was 100% OUT OF LINE.

Next time, please say, "Sorry, can I order you something? I really want to eat this."

What do you do for a living? This is a bizarre post. I call troll. Did you just watch "I think you should leave" with Tim Robinson?

Fifty/fifty chance your boss is preggers. Start prepping now to swoop in and take over during maternity leave.

I might go to find a. One t to say if you ever need a lunch pick up again, Let me know by 11 30 and I can pick up an order for you.

Did she offer to compensate you for the hamburger?